寂然
寂然

寂然,在澳門生活的文字工作者,結集出版的作品包括小說集《有發生過》、《月黑風高》、《撫摸》、《救命》,散文集《青春殘酷物語》、《閱讀,無以名狀》等。

no need to argue

If you encounter any dissatisfaction, criticism, doubts, or opinions, you should immediately follow a good manner, squeeze out a smiling face, listen patiently, and learn with an open mind. It is if you don’t do well, you should improve it quickly; if you don’t write well, write again immediately.


I have long since let go of my attachments, and sometimes even my dignity. When I encounter any dissatisfaction, criticism, doubts, or opinions, I immediately follow it with kindness, squeeze out a smiling face, listen patiently, and learn with an open mind. It is what I do not do well, and it is necessary to improve it quickly; Write again now. Business is business, there is no need to argue, no emotion, but please do what you need to do as soon as possible, and there will be new challenges tomorrow.


Always believe in "do not be angry until sunset". Therefore, refusing to develop "grievances and hatreds" for the trivial matters of sesame and mung bean, only to work hard, conscientiously, and have no time to pay attention to right and wrong gossip, and no time to complain and get angry. I have no ambition to ask myself, and I don’t want to discuss the merits and demerits of others. What I care most about is to complete the serious work at hand on time, to overcome all the difficulties that can be expected, to strive for excellence, and the most important thing is to go home on time. Ideal, no need to compare with others.


Of course, there are often unforeseen events, and sometimes things that have been planned are disrupted. Before being young and ignorant, it was easy to get angry at situations that were out of control. Now I'm also learning to face it easily. In short, adapt to the changes, the scenery does not change, the mood changes, and the smile is maintained, but the hand cannot stop, and the task is completed silently, which is worth more than a thousand words. Being able to withstand all kinds of situations is not only a matter of duty, but also a meaningful training.


We all know that time flies by like a white horse, and it would be a little embarrassing if one was still dissatisfied like a little baby at his age, blaming others all day long!


In fact, as long as you ignore some gossip, you will be very smooth and energetic in life and affairs, and you will be able to try everything.

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