Virgo Perfectionism (OCD)

Personally, I think the constellation says that the personality is very accurate, at least for me. Every time I see everyone talking about Virgo, the stereotype is that they are clumsy, difficult to deal with, difficult to get along with, and annoying... As a member of the Sun Virgo, I feel so sad every time, as if the most unpopular among the twelve constellations It's Virgo 😢

The following is the daily tangle of Virgo shared on IG, probably...not for Virgo to come back XD However, it can let everyone understand the logic behind Virgo's difficulty, we just can't let it go (perhaps, this is all obsessive-compulsive disorder common to all)

01. (Computer) The desktop is a little messy, so I can't help tidying it up

As a member of the Sun Virgo, you can accept that your room and desk are messy (this is personal order in chaos, after sorting, everything is gone), but when you see the computer desktop/folder, it starts to become chaotic (generally For example, a dozen or so files are piled together, which is the beginning of chaos), or if you don’t understand the current file classification logic, the whole person is very confused and uncomfortable, and can’t help but start classifying.

Create a folder, create a folder in the folder, throw all the files into the things you should be waiting for, and sort out a system that you can understand (hidden dirt, out of sight, out of sight).

Therefore, what we pursue is the order and rules themselves, and sorting is the process of debugging.

PS just sorted out the folder.

02. (Typesetting) The difference is 1mm, even if you can't help but be neat

Do PowerPoint well, act as an amateur designer, do simple design well, have a natural obsession with unified typesetting, pull out rectangles one by one, and determine the distance benchmarks for different objects. The distance between class A objects and class B objects is the distance of rectangle X, The distance between the B-type object and the C-type object is the distance of the rectangle Y... The difference of millimeters is also quite annoying. I can't help but take out the benchmark and correct it.

Our designs may not be exquisite and beautiful due to technology; the arrangement of every detail in it is our pursuit of perfection/rule/order, such as the rebuke of why the logo is so big and not aesthetic enough... You are sure, the last one task, you didn't make such a request? (Well, people should not be smart enough to extend the requirements of the previous task to the next task🤷🏻‍♀️)

After the PS transfer, I found that the typesetting is a little bit different from before, so I have to do it all over again.

03. (Form) I feel wrong, I can't help but change it to the right

The so-called form, from the design and color matching of the excel spreadsheet, the interface configuration of the writing software, the starting and transition of the writing and the concept of the word choice, and even the shape of the sentence and paragraph, any place that pokes the nerves, it cannot be changed until it is comfortable and cannot move forward.

In the eyes of others, there may be only a five-point difference between what you can do, what you can handle, and what is perfect.

But the unpleasantness that pokes the nerves and clamors repeatedly is the most intuitive feedback-what you are doing now does not meet the beauty and requirements that you have established over the years? I can't easily get over it, because I still have something to pursue.

People are compromising in perseverance, persevering in compromise, contradictory and painful.

PS I have abandoned several versions of a certain article.

Chicken Soup Time for the Soul: Embrace Your Imperfections

From the perspective of constellation, we are also influenced by the moon, rising constellation, and various planetary trajectories in the natal chart, creating contradictory and complex personalities, out of harmony with reality and all kinds of imperfections. The above is just the tip of the iceberg of our own imperfections. .

Our imperfections may make us less good than others, less likeable, frustrating - at least I would, and would wonder, would it be better if we were like someone?

But I also think that the difficulty of becoming a completely different person is probably similar to reincarnation... Then let go of your arms and accept yourself.

There are two sides to everything. Behind the imperfection, it may not be the shortcomings of nothing, but a logic that does not conform to the status quo. We have never used it in the right place, so we are not good enough.

Know yourself, accept yourself, and find the right direction for yourself.

(Original: Kuroto Shimon. Story Station <Virgo's Perfectionism (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)> )

(First image: Photographer: João Jesus , Link: Pexels )