Record｜First time to find a counselor

Having paid consultation for the first time yesterday, I kept wondering why I couldn't get rid of the anger I had towards my mom. And why can't I ever stay in a relationship for too long? But honestly I really don't know what kind of counseling is good? ! I left with a bit of confusion. Just talked about it yesterday...

1. Why am I leaving?
2. Why did you choose to go home to be your mother's assistant?
3. Do I want to pass that license test?
4. And is this industry really what I want?
5. What did I do to prepare before?

At the end of the meeting, the counselor hoped that I would take care of the main axis of my life first, prepare well for exams, first treat my mother as a real boss or a difficult guest, and find a way to find a balance, my mother will always be my mother, and then slowly Let's talk about the problem I want to solve.

So I don't know what kind of a session is a sustainable session?

I plan to try the second one. I hope that friends with experience can share it with me and see, how to evaluate a consultation as a good consultation?