Father's Day this year

This year's Father's Day is very special. It's not the restaurant that I choose, but the first Father's Day that my daughter-in-law and us spent together. It's a very memorable day.

A week ago, my son and daughter booked a restaurant and wanted to help the master to celebrate Father's Day. Although the daughter-in-law hadn't married yet, she was considered a family, so she celebrated with us. Everyone enjoyed the meal.

During a meal with my daughter-in-law present, the master seemed to be much quieter. Maybe he was not used to having one more person. I believe that he will be able to adapt slowly in the future. This is true for us, and it should be more for my daughter-in-law.

It's not easy to leave your own home and marry into a home where you have to fully adapt. I've come here, and of course I understand the difference. Fortunately, they didn't live with us after they got married, otherwise, I'm afraid they'd have to adjust their minds.

I have never been able to understand the words in the Bible: "A man must leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife."

It feels like I have cut off my relationship with my parents, but in fact it is not. Instead, I want to organize a family of my own and turn my attachment relationship with my parents into an independent family owner. It takes a period of time to mold and really grow up.

I remember that we had just moved out from my in-law's house, and my master and I were truly organizing a family. When my master helped dry clothes for the first time, I was greatly surprised by this move, and then a wave of emotion and joy flooded my eyes. Eyes, at that time I realized that my master's shoulders could finally be relied on. This was a great change for men, and for me, the significance was even more extraordinary.

Only then did I truly understand the true meaning of this phrase in the Bible. After that, my master became more and more involved in housework, and became more and more extensive. Even if he did not do much, he was willing to help, and his feelings towards housewives were quite different. I think many women understand it.

For a long time, in the traditional concept, women are responsible for the miscellaneous items in the house, such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, vinegar, tea, etc. Men only need to "shout" at home, and women must prepare food and water to serve them, and so does my father-in-law. , my grandfather is even more imitated. At first, I really couldn't accept it, because my father was not like this. He always took the initiative to help with the housework, and did a good job of all the things in the family that needed to be taken care of. He mainly focused on repairs, in order to take on the responsibility of the pillar of the family.

So I put my father's trick on the master, he really couldn't stand it, so I could only adjust slowly and make him my god teammate.

But what is certain is that men are indeed shouldering the heavy responsibility of the head of the family, and marriage is also the moment when they really start to leave their parents and organize their own family.

This Father's Day has its meaning. I hope that when my son becomes a father in the future, he can realize the responsibility of being the head of the family and the thought of taking care of his wife and children, so that he can more deeply appreciate the selfless love of his father.