A letter to myself ten years ago | Stay kind and age gracefully.

Ten years ago, I was 25 years old and in the Mood for Love. If I could write a letter for myself back then, what would I tell her?

Love-Dear: Actually you are very brave

You are now packing your luggage by yourself, and you are going to fly to find him, trying to save a dying relationship. This is also the first time you have gone abroad by yourself. I know, you must be very nervous and afraid, but you still want to go without hesitation, right? If I tell you that this relationship will never end, even though you met, but it's over, will you still set off?

I think, you still will, because you will be willing only if you communicate face-to-face. Although the process is torturous, it is not easy, you know? Since then, you have become very brave, and this time is also the enlightenment of your self-help travel. Years later, you can still take your whole family on a trip. From air tickets to itinerary, you are all in charge, amazing, right? So, I hope this time, you will stop crying in the homestay and enjoy the scenery along the way!

Ideal - Beloved: Feel free to bloom with confidence!

Never wear those heels to an audition! Because it will break and make you look embarrassed on your way to the TV station. This will not be the only interview you have participated in. You will work hard for every rare opportunity in the future, except that you will actually step into the TV station and work in ten years. And, after a year as a reporter, you left.

You must be very strange, right? In fact, I admire that you can hold on to this ideal for so long, and even if you are "old", you have not given up on realizing your dream. It's a pity that in addition to your physical strength is not as good as before, you also carry the burden of age. When you were young, you had courage and physical strength, but you lacked experience and requisites. When you had the opportunity to invest in the career you have longed for, you found that the workplace ecology of TV stations made you unable to do your best. Therefore, the homework you must do now is to continue to increase your self-esteem, and then you can bloom with confidence! No matter how the road ahead unfolds, you will be very clear about your direction. You make me proud of you.

LIFE - darling: things are impermanent, cherish the moment

You must not believe that people all over the world wear masks when they go out, and some are even forced to stay at home and cannot go abroad. Today, ten years later, a new type of virus has broken out around the world. Almost no land is spared. The frightening virus can be transmitted through the air and has claimed the lives of millions of people around the world.

Maybe the days are occasionally not so satisfying, but you have to believe that there is nothing more important than cherishing the moment. Many people have lost their jobs, many have lost their relatives, and many have been diagnosed and battled with death, losing their health and even their lives. You can now travel freely, have a happy meal with friends in a restaurant, and go in and out of public places without wearing a mask. These seemingly normal daily routines will all become a luxury in certain days in the future.

Epilogue

My dear, finally I want to tell you that what you are holding on to right now will be diluted with time. Regarding the future, there are still many beautiful things waiting for you, including you will meet another boy who understands you better and cherishes you more; there are also many challenges waiting for you to face, you just need to equip your own armor, confident and positive to meet. I hope you can maintain the simplicity and kindness in your heart, live with your heart in this fickle world, and age slowly and gracefully. love you.

Myself in ten years