關於生活的那幾件事。從曾是生活白痴出發，抱著嬰兒後才明白的生活那些事⋯心靈、環境、育兒、婚姻、成就⋯當媽媽才明白的⋯ 現在：2男寶的媽（需常耗的是3寶的力氣😆）過去：曾是愛作夢不會開車的小女孩《希望2個自己都還在》

"Letter to You" begins to let go of the style of being gentle, courteous and thrifty

May 3, 2022

Although I am now the mother of two boys, I often have to take turns with my husband because of business affairs, and I also live a stable family life. I unexpectedly saw that a few years ago, the first three years of being a mother, I was often a child. The days when I cry and cry, now it seems that the state of mind at that time is quite precious...

Share with you, my "Diary of a New Mom"

It was the tenth day of a one-on-one

At that time, my son was in the kindergarten class. A classmate in the class had enterovirus. According to the regulations, the whole class was suspended. Of course, I stayed at home to spend 10 days with the child... Actually, I felt pretty good. Although I was a little tired, it seemed to make me more aware of it. "Mother", from morning to night, her grievance against her husband has not increased...

On the contrary, after my husband came back, I directly rescued🤣 but there is no rescue...the children can communicate with each other when they grow up...but I just want to have a little time of my own...but there is no emotional explosion...

On the contrary, I began to let go of my gentle, courteous and thrifty style. I picked up a book, a flower art book, and three life magazines. I just happened to continue discussing marketing cases with my clients. My friends used the line to accompany me to chat about more interesting topics...

I think I am such a mother! Not quite the kind of virtuous helper...

Always thinking, what do I want to give to my family? Can I cook easily?

Can I enjoy folding clothes with the kids of this period?

Can I be honest with my child that my mother is tired at this time, and can I accept that he affects love...

Can I be weak when my husband comes back, waiting for rescue, ha!

Earlier, I burned myself like a candle, and in the end I either criticized myself or quarreled with my husband...

This week has been like this, and I can grasp the angle of my wings more and more. It turns out that the child is my partner. When I said I was tired, he went to get the massage oil and wiped it for me...

The layout of the new house is about to be confirmed. I discussed it with my husband with the beautiful layout plan. When I heard that we were going to move, the child ran over to see it, "I see!" After seeing the beautiful layout, he said, "I don't want to move, I like it here! "

At the moment, I was actually a little moved... He would always smile when the three of them were in a nest! "Dad!" "Mom!" Very satisfied...

I sincerely hope that in the future time and space, when the child encounters difficulties and despair, he will remember his satisfied smiling face😄

I think, "Mother" currently has 2.7 years of experience, so it's okay!