In the process, we learn to "forget it"

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Forget it based on laziness, not open-mindedness

"Forget it" is the most important thing I have learned in all relationships. At first, we will feel that many things can't be left alone. We need to make it clear. Our actions are defined, and we're tempted to dig our hearts out for everyone around us to see, but we still can't get forgiveness. So gradually, we learned to "forget it".

In the beginning, older people will think that they are too young to understand, so even if they don’t talk to us, we still don’t say anything until we are adults. When we grow up, we realize that “deeds are more important than words.” We can’t do this. To educate the next generation, we should try our best to communicate with children, children are full of spirituality.

As we get older, we get along with our peers and realize that the education of each family is not the same. Some people love their family very much, some are raised by their grandparents, and some people have been exposed to music and sports since childhood. These differences in growth make it easier for us to get along with different people and misunderstandings, so we accept that "as long as the result is what we want, we don't care about the process."

I don't have children yet, so I don't have the feeling of being a father yet. I hope that when I become a father, I don't have so many "forget it".


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好不容易在一起(二)

好不容易在一起

關於犧牲,我又更有體會了