I'm sorry, I will never forgive you in my life

"Not to forgive can often be seen as continuing to blame, and not letting go is synonymous with continuing to remember."

Not forgiving, not letting go is a powerful defense mechanism, a way of self-protection, remembering the pain of the past to stay vigilant at all times, to protect yourself from being hurt by surprise attacks

However, excessive tension will make others find the high wall you built when they get to know you, feel that getting along with you is too hard, and finally fall into the end of loneliness

The best time to let go is to have learned that truth, to avoid the recurrence of harmful situations

But I always think it's my own problem, and even if it's someone else's problem, I don't know how to tell it, so the high wall that I built has never collapsed, but layer after layer.

I don't know how to move forward, I want to improve my behavior, but improving doesn't mean the same people the same thing won't hurt you again

If the built wall will collapse because of external attack rather than internal relief, then it will have to build higher and thicker walls

The only way to deal with it calmly is to keep your distance from the person who has hurt you and continue to focus on important goals

From now on, your life has nothing to do with me. I don't want myself to leave because I'm not open-minded enough, to lead the way in life is more important than revenge

If we meet on the road in the future after a thousand years, let's meet, we cherish goodbye