Etiquette, an extraordinary person

What do you think a polite person looks like? What kind of behavior and so on, I am most impressed by a story, there was a famous dramatist in the past, when he was seriously ill, he could not hold on anymore, his secretary quickly said that he wanted to call a doctor , but he suddenly opened his eyes and said, "It's not a call, it's a request." Unexpectedly, this became the last word of the old gentleman. This person is called Xia Yan.

It's not easy to put yourself second or even third. Some people I know are really polite. Talking to them is a very comfortable feeling. They don't take the initiative to inquire about other people's privacy. The other party's different opinions and ideas, and they look into the other party's eyes when they speak. I think that's where the sense of trust comes from.

Although I hate classification definitions, it's really a lot worse to be polite, and it's impossible to pretend. Japan's No. 1 Cowherd, Roland, I think he is a very polite person, a temperament from the inside out. At that time, I was watching the interviews between him and other cowherds. When it was his turn, he walked out. That aura and feeling are just different, and I suddenly said, "Oh, wow", I really recommend everyone to get to know this person, he doesn't talk much, but you can feel his unique charm, yes You can feel it through the screen, and maybe you will be as amazed as I am.

My friend said before that he knew a very polite girl. At a party, I had a great time chatting with that girl, but at the moment I didn't know it was her. When my friend told me, I just " Oh! That's right! That's what it's like to get along with a polite person." At that moment, I just wanted to become such a person myself.

I also give an opposite example. A colleague I knew at work before, his concern or greetings always made me feel very uncomfortable. At that time, it was just a discussion and exchange between businesses. Because I was still relatively junior, I was still learning a lot of things. I don’t know what he misunderstood from several conversations. He even told me that he was afraid that I would starve to death hahaha , I direct a black question mark. Questions like this have been asked many times. He didn’t know me very well and the system of the company behind him, so he gave random thoughts, opinions and concerns. I know that his intentions may be good, but the whole sound of it makes people feel Discomfort "Oh? So you think I'm not serious about running business?" "Are you doing well? You can look at people through your nose like this."

From high school, university to society, life always forces us to get together with certain people. Now that the Internet is more developed, it will be tied together by invisible social media. It can be seen whether he is an educated person, this sentence in the gold spy: "Etiquette, an extraordinary person." Are you right? Are you beginning to want to become a tasteful gentleman too?