The world in your eyes is still so beautiful

English has always been my hurdle since I was a child. I always feel that it is very similar to martial arts. I have learned a lot, but when I use it, I have to adapt accordingly. And I'm very indifferent about it, and I know it's not a good thing for the future, but it's hard for me to build this habit. Even now, I'm still not good at it. It was my teacher at the time who thought it was an advantage. She said: "You learn very quickly, and these are not difficult for you to understand. If you are not good at using it, why don't you read it. In some American comedies or movies, see how other people use these words and grammar, and try to imitate a few sentences.” Since then, I have finally broken through the dilemma of English, the purpose is different, the method will be different, the most important is “ The perspective is different."

For another example, what do you think about "broken love"?

"I was also in pain when I broke up with my first love. I don't think I'll ever like someone so much in my life. But now I'm married and have children with the person I love the most, and I'm living a very happy life, although I still think about it occasionally. , but it's less painful."

"I envy you so much, I'm older than you but I've never been in a relationship, and I don't know what it's like to be lost."

"I'm the type of person who doesn't tell the other person the reason for breaking up, and I think doing so can reduce the damage. I didn't expect it to make the other person more sad."

"It turns out that some people are so sensitive. It seems that when I fall in love, I need to be more cautious and pay more attention to the feelings of the other party."

"When my ex broke up with me, he only said one sentence: 'I'm sorry, I don't love you anymore.' Then he turned and left to invest in the next relationship. He honestly didn't know what to say. Originally, I wanted to tell him that you have done the best thing in your life. Bad decision, you were with someone who wasn't as nice as me. But after I saw them, I knew they were the pair that should have been together."

We can imagine anyone saying the above words in their mouths, even themselves, but they have different experiences and perspectives on the same thing. The change of perspective brings about changes in psychological feelings, turning the uncontrollable passive into active, and focusing on what we can change.

We all live in a world that we know and understand, and learning to see things from different perspectives gives us a multi-layered understanding of the world. Compared with these, I know that in some cases, it is really difficult to get out of the frame of our understanding of things, so the best advice is to make more friends who are used to seeing problems from different angles. Because no matter what happens, the world in their eyes is still so beautiful.