What is a hypersensitive child?

The test of children is not easy to judge. Young children do not have enough understanding of the evaluation text and parents do not understand the characteristics of children. Therefore, highly sensitive children are often easily classified as negative labels.

First of all, highly sensitive children are normal children just like ordinary children, with normal intelligence, normal physical ability, and normal understanding ability. They are not different, but their sensory feelings are stronger.

You can refer to the table to let you know if your child is a highly sensitive group.

Each child has different degrees of sensitivity. Some children are sensitive to sound, some children are sensitive to the environment, some are sensitive to touch, and some children are sensitive to all senses. There is no definitive evidence that hypersensitive children are genetically linked, but parenting styles are enough to determine how they develop emotionally as adults:

Is being sensitive really bad?

Having a deeper sense than others gives them a deeper imagination, perception and creativity. What's more, psychologists have found after long-term follow-up that as long as their childhood environment is positive and stable, they know how to express their emotions and understand their own characteristics, they are often healthier and happier than the average person.

My child is a highly sensitive child. When I found out that he was sensitive, I was caught off guard. In order to help him, I tried to understand him and tried many methods. He fits most of the conditions in the high sensitivity table. It completely overwhelmed me. For example, before he was 4 years old, he needed a lot of observation time for the environment and people. If he was just observing, it didn't seem to matter, but if his mother was not accompanied, he would be in a state of collapse. (Even in a fixed teaching environment that goes to once a week and the grandparents who meet every week) After I constantly understand his behavior, use correct dialogue exercises and guidance, he can now be desensitized to a certain extent , he learned to feel his emotions, all this is not easy, but the bitter process in the middle, I think highly sensitive parents must be able to feel the same.

In the face of the incomprehensible vision of outsiders, but insist on becoming a fortress for the child, let him learn and grow slowly, the time is very long, but you will definitely see the results.