Chatting on the Analects of Confucius / Township Party (Part 2)
Today, let's continue to look at the words and deeds of Confucius among the passers-by~
By the way, I hope that the old people in the family can learn from Confucius. Once Ji Kangzi (a role similar to the boss) sent tonic to Confucius. After Confucius solemnly thanked him, he honestly said to him: Thank you for giving me the medicine. , but because I don't know the medicinal properties, I dare not try it.
Everyone has to learn! Don't eat it if your friends say it's good, he's not a doctor!
Of course, some people will say thank you and accept it. You don't need to tell him if you want to eat or not, right? What if the boss or a friend holds grudges or is unhappy?
Please..., a friend who gets angry just because he speaks honestly..., saying he is a friend is an insult to the word friend!
And a boss who can't even accept honest answers from his subordinates...he will be angry no matter what you do....
On the other hand, if I lied to the other party and I ate it and the effect was good... First, it was a lie, and second, it would be even worse if he was really trying to sell it to others!
(There are actually many explanations here. Xiaolu’s explanation is more traditional. I personally think it is in line with Confucius’ personality and the principles of dealing with others. , and don't want to deceive the other party that they have food)
And Confucius, he, property and people, he values people more than property~
Once when he went to work, his house was burnt. When he came home from get off work, he didn't ask if the horse was okay, but first cared about whether anyone was injured because of it~
Just like a child breaking a cup, if the parents come over and blame the child for how to break the cup..., in the heart of the child is the feeling that the cup is more important than me..., even if the parents mean it; you will hurt if you accidentally break the cup. The same...; please pay attention to the order and content of your speech.
The old man Confucius will also use his own attitude to let people know that he values you very much~
For example, when you bring food over, you will eat it when it is right. For now, if you give Confucius a box of cakes, he will not eat it after opening the box, but will eat it with a sense of ritual: first take out the cake, put it in On a suitable plate, with a small fork and a fork, and maybe a pot of tea, it is starting~
He also won't rely on his knowledge to act arbitrarily. In solemn occasions, such as worship and other things, he will ask for advice on everything~
He also attaches great importance to his friends. When a friend passes away and no one handles the funeral, he will stand up and pay for it until the end.
But don't think Confucius is very serious. He didn't sleep in the same posture until dawn. He would joke around at home. Even if he was close to the bereaved family, he would restrain his expression and express his condolences. For the Venerable and the disabled, for example, see Those who cannot see will not look contemptuous just because they cannot see.
(Let's insert a picture here where I went back to my residence yesterday and saw a cat sleeping soundly)
Let me tell you an interesting thing, once Confucius went to someone else's house as a guest, and the other party cooked the food in person.
People in the past believed that the heavens would use natural disasters or celestial phenomena to express warnings, so when there was constant thunder or violent winds, Confucius would seriously consider whether his words and deeds were inappropriate.
Some people would think that Confucius lived a very hard life like this, but I think it's okay. He should have become a part of himself after so many years. He will stand firm and grab the handrail after getting on the bus; he will not look around in the car. ; Point to the outside, don't think it's okay.... Because Confucius is an official and a teacher after all, sitting in the car is already superior to others, and he is laughing and chatting while pointing around... ., it is easy to make people feel superior to others... just because they are afraid of misunderstanding, so the royal families of countries such as Japan or the United Kingdom need to regulate every time they go out on tour, no matter the angle of nodding and the arc of waving....
(Otherwise it will become the situation of Xiaoying on the clouded leopard armored vehicle in 2018....)
But is such a gentleman really loved and wanted to reuse by the superior?
A manager who has the ability to be good to the people, who is not corrupt and willing to do things, respects his superiors but does not flatter him, who persuades his superiors politely when he makes mistakes, and a manager who leads by example and does not bully the darkroom.... Do you really like the person in power?
As a passerby, I don't know the thoughts of the lord of the country. I only know that on that day, Confucius took Zilu to the wild and saw a pheasant because someone was approaching, so he flew up to the tree to see if Confucius' group would hurt it. After seeing that this group of people would not hurt it, he dared to stop on the tree, and even if he stopped, he would always pay attention to the actions and expressions of human beings.
Confucius saw that even the pheasants are so aware of the current affairs and know how to judge the situation, so he said:
"Shanliang female pheasant, it's time! It's time!" (The pheasants in the mountains, you also know how to observe the timing)
Zilu took out the food and threw it to the pheasant. The pheasant smelled the food, but did not dare to fly close to pecking it, but flew away.
Here, I, a passerby, feel like...., Confucius will judge the male and female of the pheasant ㄟ~
And... Confucius is probably going to leave his hometown for a long journey....
Xiangdang, as the name suggests, is a record of Confucius' words and deeds in his hometown, the state of Lu, when he held an official position. After you have this concept first, you can generally know from the last paragraph of this article... Confucius knew that he was in Lu It is impossible for the country to implement its own ideals..., the next advanced chapter... is a broken, reminiscent, and displaced record....
Time! Time!
Time to leave.
Time! Time!
Sometimes I have to preach as soon as possible while I can.
Time! Time!
Even if it is inappropriate to go alone, I want to promote the world harmony.
Time! Time!
After I die, who else will inherit the ideal.
Shizai, Shizai, what exactly is Shizai?
In the midst of troubled times, how many people choose to be the herd of deer returning to the mountains, and how many choose to be the first to stick to their ideals?
Finally, back to the cats who slept sweetly in the light rain last night, each of them has their own territory~
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