walking on the road of life

I can’t say I’m dissatisfied with my current life and work, but I think it can be better. From childhood to adulthood, I listened to others and did it. I put my own thoughts at the end, but when I have to move forward alone On the contrary, "I don't know what I want" or "I can't find the direction of my life". After flipping through the book and searching the Internet, I am even more hesitant and mixed with a lot of regrets. The bad thing is that it is still stagnant. In such a circle, day after day, year after year.

Your time is limited, don't waste it living a life that doesn't belong to you. — Jobs

In fact, I have always envied the people who knew what to do and worked hard to move forward. On the other hand, I was still in a cocoon, always thinking about falling behind them, but I couldn't find a good way to escape the shackles in my heart and think about myself in big strides. Where to go, deep cultivation and development.

Through the recommendation of a friend, I applied for a monthly consultation opportunity. I use others to understand myself and understand myself on the road of life. What should I do? what should I do?

After the consultation, I found that I was really myself. For example, I picked up a lot of stones, and I accidentally hurt myself when I wanted to hit the water. Listening and listening to find out the key point is still yourself, what is your own opinion, have you taken practical actions or just daydreaming? Will anything change after that?

In the end the advice of others is just advice.

During a nearly 40-minute consultation, most of the content was that I already knew what I should do, and I realized more that the binding of my hands and feet was self-consciousness. I should persuade not others, but myself, and I need to give it to myself. Full of faith, can the will to move forward firmly.

Almost anything can be tolerated as long as there is a reason to live. Life is meaningful, even in adversity, you can live happily; life is meaningless, even in good times. —Friedrich Nietzsche

What you need to learn on the road of life:

#be honest with yourself

#know what you want

#make time for yourself

#thinking about the meaning of life

This article is written for myself, to give myself courage, and to inspire people who are in the same troubles as me.

Find a way to solve it, staying in place is not a good way.