Thank you for your selfless love

I had a very good friend since I was a child. I used to go to his house to play. His parents were very kind to us. Before we left, he would also clean and chat with us. When I was a child, I always thought he was an only child and was well-loved until we went to primary school.

It was only at this time that he himself learned that he was not an only child, but an adopted child. His parents did not tell him because he was still young at the time. At that time, his biological parents wanted to see him, and it was the first time he saw his biological parents, but he had communicated with his adoptive parents, and it was not as shocking as before.

At first his adoptive parents were worried about letting him see his biological parents for fear that the child would leave them, and he also told me that his mother was holding him and crying about it. When I got to college, out of curiosity, I couldn't help but ask his adoptive parents how they were feeling at the time. I don't understand that to my friend, they are of course the most important people to him, even if they are not biological, but they must mean more to him than biological parents.

What they told me at this point was the most selfless love I've ever heard in my life, and they said, "Adoption is complicated, no matter what we hope, we are not his real parents, we are his who, let him He decided. He may change his mind at any time in his life, all we can do is make him feel safe, grow up safely, support what he wants to do, be his safe haven at all times, and give him our best Love."

Love is selfless. When we are willing to truly love someone, we will hope that he will be happy. Whether or not we will stay by our side is not something we can decide. Giving the other person the right to choose is another form of love. Don't ask for anything in return, love with all your heart, thank the other party for giving us the opportunity to love him.