Are you a Harrah's bullshit optimist?

 Human speech is the least precise, and sometimes it's just what an atmosphere needs.

I found that some people like to ask someone to say a few words when they are in high spirits . Because they are in high spirits , they are not very serious, and they will have jokes and nonsense, which means harassment .

However, this kind of behavior can only be used on acquaintances or people of the same type. In addition, it depends on whether the atmosphere is suitable!

Do this with someone who doesn't like to joke about Hara , and you're going to hit a snag, guaranteeing an ugly scene.
If the other party is someone who can joke, it also depends on his mood and the surrounding atmosphere, otherwise he will run into a wall.

This " Hala Mode " is an action that dazzles others with joy . In fact, it is only necessary for the atmosphere , and the words spoken are not important. If you want to delve into the content of the words, I am afraid that it is irrational and even full of mistakes, and it is more likely to offend people.

The joyful smearing of looking for someone to mess with Hara is not the same thing as a "sense of humor ". A sense of humor is a legitimate expression and can also be used in formal occasions. The chaos is a bit over, it's a bit too high !

 Since harassment is risky and cannot be considered elegant, it is better to strictly prohibit it?

But this is a kind of character expression , not everyone will have such behavior, but people who have a hearty nature or have an outlet to resolve their minds will naturally have this kind of " slightly out of order " behavior.

Because this is nature and spontaneity, there are still a lot of people who are " slightly unable to control their emotions ". After all, if everyone is serious and follow the rules, there will be no sudden laughter and joy. Wild in control.

Because such people are more open-minded, there are not a few people who like this type of people.
Of course, the more serious people may hate such people more.
nobody is perfect.

Back to the beginning:
"Human speech is the most imprecise, and sometimes it's just an atmosphere."

When we talk to a person, we must first look at the atmosphere at the time, and then decide what the content of " listening and speaking " is!

A person with a Hala-type personality, to judge that he is in Hala now? Or serious? In fact , you can feel it from the atmosphere. If he is in Hala at the moment, you only need to feel the pleasant atmosphere , and don't care about the content of the words! Otherwise, you might be annoyed! But when he is serious, you should listen carefully and switch to serious mode .

This is all a change required by the change of the atmosphere . Most of the " salesmen " can control this mode of speech and create the atmosphere. When he flatters you loudly and jokes with you that Harrah is commonplace, you feel the dragon's heart is very happy, but when he starts talking about business, he can be detailed and precise, don't you think so?

Anyway, the act of Hala talking nonsense is an act of creating an atmosphere, and it is an act of bringing his own joy to others . At this time, his words were just to create an atmosphere, don't ask what the content is.

Why am I talking about this topic today?

Because I made a mistake: because I knew the truth, but I was dissatisfied with what I said to my colleague Hala , thinking that he stabbed me. In fact, this is just an atmosphere. At this time, the words cannot be serious, as long as you feel the pleasant atmosphere.

I'm also someone who switches to Hala mode from time to time. Maybe I accidentally stab others because of this?

Are you a Hala person?

Text 2022.2.18