寶兒
寶兒

90後香港獨遊創作人,獨自走訪印度、東南亞及北歐小國。 亂世間願毋忘初心。 IG: bowiec.writing Email: bowiec.writing@gmail.com

Treat April Fool's Day as Valentine's Day

I haven't had a good chat with my father for a while, and it is rare to have this opportunity to decide to record it.


2019 Vietnam

Dad told me that the first time he confessed to his mother seemed to be April Fool's Day, and I don't know how they got together after that. In fact, I am quite envious of the relationship between my parents. They have never been very affectionate, except that they have not been since I was sensible. Maybe I would describe their relationship as very firm. Dad is a face-saving person, but he actually sacrificed a lot for my mother. He often told me that as a boy, no matter what happens, no matter if a relationship develops into family or love, if Yun makes a promise, he must give it to him. Peace of mind for the other half. In fact, I don't really understand, because in my opinion my mother is very willful but also very strong. Many times my father makes mistakes and I rebel, but she keeps a home in her own way. She has been with him for half of her life. In recent years, my relationship with my family has not been very good, but I can still go home whenever I want.


In my opinion, my past happiness was built together by them, although there must be mistakes and shadows, but because of them I still believe that an ideal relationship is:

He makes mistakes, and I share with him.

I am self-willed, and he tolerates my temper.


Recently, I was chatting with my father, and my father talked to me about marriage. This is the first time he has seriously discussed this topic with me. Although we both thought I was still young, he said that he hoped that I would find someone who was not too rich, otherwise I would feel inferior, and then the boy must be able to cook fish. , because that's my favorite. The other boy is more mature and calmer than me, and he is more likely to meet obstacles than me. This can ensure that he can tolerate my stubbornness, and can also accompany me to endure all future failures, but the most important thing is that I like him... The rest I didn't listen carefully, because I knew that these were not the conditions for him to choose a son-in-law, but Dad understood me in this regard, he knew that one day he would leave, and he understood my unease, willfulness and stubbornness. Some people say that April Fool's Day is also Valentine's Day, so I'm writing this today, either for real or as a joke.


If you are like me, but you have been a happy person for a long time, then please believe that we can give others the same happiness one day, and then find someone to make a promise, and before that, be yourself.

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