八哥小栗
八哥小栗

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Essay 【The Childhood of an Adult's World】

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Did you have a happy childhood? Do you often hear [How can you still be as naive as a child when you are so old? ]}
8 JULY 2022 Filming, Location: Farlim Mac Donald,Penang,Malaysia

'Hey Anne, Today is Good Friday!'' is definitely my mantra every Friday. This is what I look forward to every weekend after becoming an office worker. I will be very happy every Friday. I will tell my lover that I want to eat more tonight, and I will have a slice of China House Tiramisu for dessert after dinner. If I don’t go to work tomorrow, I can sleep late tonight! YEAH!

We play different roles and have different types of expectations as we grow up. For example, when we were students, what we most looked forward to was of course the school holidays, and as an office worker who lived 9 to 5 in the morning, I was most looking forward to public holidays, supplementary holidays, consecutive holidays, and weekends, because of course, I could sleep until I woke up naturally. what! Today I chose to end my wonderful Friday with a McDonald's Happy Kids Meal. It also happened that the Minions movie was released, so the packaging was changed to the design of Minions.

When I got home, my mother asked the first sentence: Are you still young? So big, but also buy HAPPY MEAL to eat! There seems to be no limit to Happy Kids Meal, only children can eat it! This sentence gave me some thoughts that I want to share with the readers who are destined to do so. Have you ever been asked by someone: How old are you, why are you so naive? Another kind of dialogue with contrast is that your children will say to you: Mommy, I am 12 years old! I don't want to wear that MICKEY clothes again, it's too childish! But you who are already a wife and a mother are still there from HIGH This is so cute, that is so cute!

Children can't wait to grow up, and adults will feel how cool it is to be a carefree child! I don't want to grow up! I am also an adult with a childish innocence. Some people may think that this is immature and childish, but for me, the world of children is happier and simpler. For me, maturity is a character for adults. There is no PROCEDURE in the world that teaches us how to be an adult. Another way of saying it is that we now use our abilities to make up for our incomplete childhood.

Modern parents will do their best to give their children the greatest material enjoyment. Compared with us in the past, it is indeed a world apart, especially for children from poor family environments, what a dream to eat a fast-food meal. I once talked to a friend about his childhood. He told me that when he was a child, his family was very poor, and it was a problem to eat three meals a day. Where would his parents get the extra money to buy fast food. What impressed me was that he said he couldn't even afford chocolate! So now he will do everything he can to feed his family. We can't blame our parents for the family environment, they have done their best to keep us well fed. And today's children enjoy too much and develop bad habits of being ungrateful, picky eaters and so on.

Whether it is mature or naive, as long as we can be ourselves and be happy. As adults, in many situations, we need to know how to handle ourselves and how to measure. Just like working and studying, we should take it seriously instead of treating the work environment as a playground. And when you're having fun, let yourself have fun and enjoy the moment. Only in this way can we achieve WORK LIFE BALANCE. Now many young people will do whatever they want and distort the meaning of this sentence. You can be yourself but don't build your happiness on the pain of others. For the phrase "be yourself", my idea is not to lose confidence by caring about other people's evaluations and degrade yourself. You can't meet everyone's expectations, don't live in someone else's mouth. Do the best you can to love yourself, and then you will be able to love the people around you.

May the pure hearts of all adults remain

May all adults be able to be themselves after taking off their masks in a complex society

May everyone know how to be content and grateful

May everyone treat their parents well

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