Children of God in Marriage (1)

I am a person who likes to tell true stories. The truth will be unsatisfactory, and the truth will have a kind of pain that cannot be modified. When it comes to love and marriage, most people will think of Korean dramas. The textbook relationship between lovers is unquestionable. The giving of love is very beautiful. Most of us can still recite the Bible verses: Love is patient and kind, love is not arrogant, does not boast, is not rude, is not self-seeking, is not angry, does not bear grudges, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth, love is all things. Tolerance, whatever you believe, whatever you hope, whatever you endure... is really beautiful, I said it emphatically twice.

Apostle Paulo, the author of the above declaration of love, is a single man. Although he does not have a family, it is probably not easy to live in harmony with people of all kinds in the church's group life.

Let’s get to the point: the love, marriage and family of God’s children, some are very happy, and some are extremely unfortunate. We are particularly happy. Some are very good at the beginning and continue to be good. This is called thanking the Lord for His protection. Some have an unfortunate beginning and are very painful afterwards. People's misfortunes seem to be caused by their personalities and obsessions. Some crosses are found by ourselves, not given by God. But in the process of carrying them, the Lord's grace is still there to support us.

Today’s story is about an unfaithful husband

There is such an auntie called Xi Le, and Aunt Xi Le's name is Xi Le, but her life is particularly unhappy. When she was 17 or 8 years old, she was as beautiful as a beauty pageant lady. Her family background was also good, and both her parents were respected people. Most young girls are prone to make this mistake: if a boy compliments you with a few perfunctory words such as "You are the most beautiful girl", "You are so special", etc., he will probably feel complacent inside. If the other person is handsome, I will give you a small gift. Some girls quickly become confused again. Anyway, the young joy was out of control. She became pregnant, but the boy was not willing to marry her. Finally her father and brother came forward and the boy had no choice but to marry her.

In my opinion, if she had not forced herself to marry, she would not have suffered for decades. After decades of married life, she did her best to take care of her family, be considerate of her husband, and be humble to him. She is very nice and beautiful. There is no shortage of prayers, but her husband is really good at playing. Let’s call her husband Mr. Lin. Mr. Lin’s family is actually a Christian family. One of his sisters is a nun, and the other sister is very devout before the Lord. The other brothers are all honest, only Mr. Lin is a prodigal.

Mr. Lin has a flexible mind and is good at business. His career is very prosperous and his emotional life is very rich. He had five extramarital lovers, and all of them gave birth to children. He even brought home one named Xile Yang, and Aunt Xile recognized her. A person's private life is corrupt, and his business character is not much better. Mr. Lin has a huge career and has many violations of law and discipline. In order to prevent the government from confiscating his property, he thought he was smart and put all his property in the names of his children. , when it comes to children, they can only be children born to Aunt Xi Le, not illegitimate children.

He was already old at that time, and Mrs. Xi Le might have been waiting for an opportunity for a long time. How many times can a woman endure her husband's betrayal? Her lifelong bitterness finally broke out after the transfer of property. Mr. Lin suddenly lost everything. He was driven out of his home by his wife and children, and lost his company and family mansion. He tried many ways to get his property back. He fought a lawsuit until he had a heart attack and almost died. Even the doctor who saved his life was blamed by his daughter for being "meddling in his own business." But to this day, he has been unable to get his property back.

Although the husband and wife were in an ugly fight, Mr. Lin's sister and sister-in-law were still best friends. It was very difficult for the sister to not save her brother at the risk of death. She had to pray for him. Deep down, she knew that he was going too far. Both his sister-in-law and the children were I was deeply hurt by him. But sometimes the family has to receive my brother's aunt, and I feel sorry for my sister-in-law...

In short, because some people are still praying for the man named Lin, he is still alive, but judging from his age and health, it will not be long. His youngest illegitimate son is only 5 years old, younger than his grandson. God has given the opportunity to repent, I wonder if he can seize it?

As for Aunt Xile, she is not the most miserable woman. There was a church girl who got pregnant before marriage and was so frightened that she decided to get married. Her boyfriend was a bisexual. She was hooking up with another man, and they were still together after they got married. This sister suffered a stroke ten years after her marriage. Her body was distorted and her mind was in pain until she died.

You don't even know what you are doing.

I often think that we must have done something wrong somewhere. We are Christians and we often go to church, but we do not have the ability to live wisely, but we do not have the ability to correct mistakes and stop the troubles in life. Please have mercy on the Lord. It is best to be able to cut off when we are done, because the cost of continuing to make mistakes may destroy us.