Reading Notes "Japanese Popular NO.1 The President of Beijing University gave a lecture! Wild Thinking: Wild Thinking╳Funny Learning to Become the Global Talents Needed in the Future"

● Today's students often talk about their own opinions, but do not know how to listen to the ideas of others. In the face of different opinions, many people just say "I don't agree!" and then shut themselves up. Such people do not think from the other's point of view at all, so when they hear different opinions, they push themselves into a dead end of negation, and they are very bad at communicating with others.

●People must have "interpersonal skills" when they have content conversations with each other, and this ability includes the following three key points:

1. Think from the other side's standpoint

2. Draw conclusions based on the situation

3. Make your own decisions

That is to say, when you disagree with others, or when the two sides are arguing about the same goal, you must think together with the other party on how to reach a conclusion.

●Even natives of the same culture will have different opinions due to different growth environments or positions, not to mention people from different cultural backgrounds. Whenever someone disagrees with you, instead of proving you are right through discussion, it will be more "interesting" to think about a new concept together across the differences in ideas.

●There is a saying in Africans: "There is no problem. There is a solution." There will be many difficulties in life, but no matter what kind of difficulties, as long as you face them calmly, there will be solutions.

●When the only factor that attracts the other party is "money", once in danger, the other party may grab all the money and escape by himself. Therefore, you have to make the other person feel, "I don't want to leave this person, treat him as a friend, and stay with him." In other words, you have to show others that you have other values than money and power.

●If you are currently feeling troubled because you have to go against your original intention, you might as well look a little further. Thinking about it carefully, although what I am doing now is not out of sincerity, it is not unrelated to what I really want to do. There must be some kind of connection between the two. If you don’t believe so, you will definitely give up on yourself once your life encounters a severe test.

●Because the "self" is based on our past actions, we can neither beautify nor obliterate the past, nor can we build it completely on lies. And if you don't feel confident about yourself like this, you can't face others with an equal attitude.

●Don't just be satisfied with your current situation, work, research or studies, believe that you are changing at any time, that you are constantly growing, that you can succeed, even if you are not flying to "higher", but just stepping It’s okay to be in another environment next to it, because thinking that “I can fly” is equivalent to giving myself more space.

●I still have a lot of room to become another brand new me. Take this idea as a possibility, believe it bravely from the bottom of your heart, and look at yourself with such an attitude. In this way, you can achieve the effect of self-motivation.

~President of Kyoto University, Primatology and Anthropologist / Yamagiwa Juichi

~ "Japanese Popular NO.1 The President of Beijing University gave a lecture! Wild Thinking: Wild Thinking╳Funny Learning to Become the Global Talents Needed in the Future"

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