【Jin Yong·The Legend of Condor Heroes】Is there a way to learn trust?

Huang Rong has always been wary of Yang Guo. She once thought that Yang Guo took the newly born Guo Xiang in order to go to Heartless Valley to exchange the antidote of the flower poison. Later, after Li Mochou explained the reason, she realized that Yang Guo was saving Guo Xiang with her life, but she couldn't trust him. He lamented that his loyalty to others was far less than that of Guo Jing, and now he was determined to "prefer others to bear me, and not allow me to bear others again." Sixteen years later, when Guo Xiang and Yang Guo met, Huang Rong's first thought was still that Yang Guo was uneasy and kind, and wanted to use Guo Xiang to take revenge on the Guo family. Sixteen years ago, Huang Rong couldn't trust Yang Guo, and sixteen years later, she still does.

The biggest comparison with Huang Rong is his husband Guo Jing, who trusts Yang Guo from beginning to end. Sixteen years ago, I didn't believe that Yang Guo would exchange Guo Xiang for the antidote. Sixteen years later, when I knew that Yang Guo was celebrating Guo Xiang's birthday, I never thought that Yang Guo had bad intentions. I thanked Yang Guo from the bottom of my heart for the three great things he had done for Xiangyang and the Beggar Gang.

From Huang Rong and Guo Jing's attitude towards Yang Guo, one can't help but think "Is trust a natural or a skill." If it is natural, it is difficult to learn, just like the overlord's domineering, it is not something that can be learned. Guo Jing didn't particularly learn to trust, he was born with it, and so did Guo Xiang. Compared with Guo Xiang and Guo Xiang, Huang Rong is less trusting of people. She relies on thinking. If she can confirm the facts, Huang Rong doesn't need to trust her. The problem was that when it was "unable to confirm", Huang Rong chose to be on guard instead of trusting.

Is there any way for Huang Rong or someone more defensive to learn to "trust"? If so, how to learn it? I don't have an answer to this question, I leave it to you to think about it.