After the pre-marriage trial, it feels great to be back in the original home

Since my sister was diagnosed with me, who lived on the same floor as her, even though I didn't meet her for the first four days, I just went to my boyfriend's house to play. On the day I was going home, I was shocked to learn that she was diagnosed, and my mother also called to tell me to stay here and leave. Going home, so, just started a pre-marriage trial experience!

The experience lasted 14 days in total, leaving my native family and lovely room. During this period, I really think about my family and the feeling of being at home. After all, I went to live at my boyfriend’s house, and I am not familiar with the daily routine and interaction of the other’s family. Although my boyfriend’s mother said that I don’t have to be restrained by what I want to eat, and I shouted in my heart. A little more comfortable, but that invisible boundary gap seems difficult to bridge. My future family has no blood relationship with me. I didn't watch me from a small diaper, but I would only eat, drink, and sleep. I was so tender when I was studying, and I was rebellious when I was young. ...and so unreservedly free exposure.

Thinking of entering a marriage, entering a husband's house, entering a different life style, and facing a strange environment and people, it is really difficult to identify all this as your home in a short period of time... Who would Lying down in front of the other's family, eating and laughing at the waste film? I don't dare to ha.

Due to the company that ended my 6-year stay not long ago, it takes a period of time to let my body and mind dry out.

During the trial period, I have to stay at home for a long time, so the feeling is more profound. Otherwise, I used to go to my boyfriend's house with soy sauce. I would go to work the next day after a nap, or I would just go to play and leave the house in a dashing manner.

During the day when my boyfriend went out to work, it was just me and his family looking at each other. After the three meals, I will chat with his family to exchange feelings. After the meal, I will help to wash the dishes. Just before the Dragon Boat Festival, I will help to make rice dumplings and play traditional crafts (I’m really tired... I don’t want to make them in the future), other big Part of the time, I go upstairs and use the computer to do my own business, but I don’t live in my own home and don’t dare to stay for too long.

Try to be as comfortable as possible, but it is difficult to be at ease.

It is certain that I will live in my husband’s house for a period of time in the future. Since I can’t get along as comfortably as my native home, I can choose to go to work during the day and shorten my stay at my husband’s house. In addition to reducing the time spent staring, I can increase my income and ability independently. Self-confidence, although life control will be more busy, but as long as you don't stare at it!

After finishing the pre-marriage trial, I feel really comfortable when I come back home. I can understand what people say that only after marriage can I know how good my family is. Perhaps in the future, running your own home will be a sweet burden, which also means that you have grown up and are able to live a new life and challenge independently.

Just use a calm heart and continue to meet the future life.