goodbye ex

Most people have been hurt more or less in this matter. I once had a friend who was not happy at all in her relationship. She thought about each other in everything and cooperated with each other. She was afraid that she would be abandoned by the other party if she did something wrong. She constantly sacrificed her real needs and put her Put yourself in a very low position, but the result? That man didn't know how to cherish her at all. He took her kindness to him for granted. When he was happy, he coaxed her and made her happy for nothing. When he was unhappy, he just lost his temper and controlled her emotionally. , he was tortured to death by him, and he was afraid that the man would no longer love him for the slightest little thing.

In fact, I wanted to tell the truth to that friend: dear, wake up, in fact, he didn't love you at all, or he didn't love you enough. Compared with you, he loves himself more, and you are the biggest The problem is not loving yourself enough. You put all your focus on the other half to please him, but in the end? You suffer yourself, you tire yourself out too much, and you don't realize that you are being controlled by him. You can be unhappy because of one of his words, and you can want to die because of one of his actions, and he may only think that you are unreasonable, but I don't know, the biggest reason is that you love him too much, care too much about him, So you are controlled by him without knowing it.

However, I dare not tell the truth to my friends, they all say that the bystander is clear, although I can see clearly that that stinky man doesn't love her at all, but think about it, I have suffered a lot of hurt and growth in my relationship because of this. Who didn't come this way? Maybe I told her so much at the time, she would only think that I was provoking discord, or even more extreme, love that man, so I chose to play the role of listening by her side, listening to her love troubles, but in my heart I pity her very much.

Thinking about it now, growing up always brings some pain, and feelings seem to be more unfriendly to women, perhaps because women are born with a weaker impression than men, so they are more likely to be hurt in relationships. Especially those girls who are too simple and think too good and idealistic about their feelings. In fact, you are very good, but you must meet someone who is worthy, so that he can understand your goodness, so you should cherish the beauty in yourself. , Don't be affected by those garbage and become garbage, how will you meet better people then?

Those who are close to Zhu are red, those who are close to ink are black, the more you cherish yourself and your goodness, the more you know how to turn yourself into a better person, then you will meet someone who knows how to cherish, love you, understand you and treat you well The chances of a good man are also higher. Even if you don't meet them, you can live your life as a beam of light, and you can become your own sun. And the more you attach your own needs to love, long for love, but you don't live a better life or learn to love yourself more, you will only be hurt continuously in your relationship, and eventually you may no longer believe in love. , and maybe even hurt others.

Therefore, I sincerely hope that kind and good girls, you will learn to think more about yourself, live for yourself, live your life, and live a wonderful life. Although there are many good men in the world, they are only worthy of their trash exes. Let you cry once, and the second time, just throw him in the trash! Go to his ex and roll as far as I can! Garbage should be put in the trash can, so that your life can be cleaner~