Code Farmer's Daily - "Interpersonal" Game Social

碼農日常

Apr 30, 2021

IPFS

Get off! ! Get off! ! Oh, are you mentally retarded (╯=▃=)╯︵┻━┻

In fact, this is a question that I have been concerned about for a long time; how do you think about playing games?

Is it a positive reaction or a negative reaction?

Think games are just a waste of time? Or do you think playing games can train your problem-solving skills?

And me~ Compared with these, I care more about game socialization

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I don't know what concepts your parents instilled in you when you were young, but at least my parents told me that playing games is not good ( ´_ゝ`)

Waste of time, not helpful for the future - this is the knowledge I received from my parents

However, as life grows, I find more and more that some situations are not what their parents say they are.

At least for me, it's a fact that I didn't make any friends in high school because of this

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oh! Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I didn't have friends in high school, if it's true then I do have to review my personality XD

I mean, I didn't make friends QQ that I would hang out with from time to time in high school

Generally speaking, high school should be the period when you often hang out with your friends.

But at least for me this experience is rare

Even my mother told me before: Why do I think your high school life is blank?

blame me ʕ￫ᴥ￩ʔ

Of course, I thought about it later

It's not that I don't have friends, it's because I have nothing in common with them, so naturally I don't hang out with them at all, and I was the only one playing music in the class at the time, so naturally no one could have anything in common with me. topic

I also went to Yizhong Street with a few friends at that time, and also went to play badminton bowling with them, but in the end, I still lost to their common topic... LOL (League of Legends)

my opinion at the time

"You vulgar things (´Д｀)ヾ"

This is how I felt about my classmates

For me, my vision for high school is to join a club, then go through all the ups and downs of youth, and ~~finally enter the national competition and play slalom ball or something like that.~~

Then the academic performance doesn't need to be very good, just the upper-middle level; by the standard, I did reach the upper-middle level in the class

But I think my classmates don't seem to know what they are doing. They play games all day long. They also talk in class and after class. Don't you have anything other than games? ( ´_ゝ`)

Forget it, you're just vulgar things anyway, I don't care

Yes, I was so extreme in high school, no doubt about QQ

Of course, as I said, I’m not completely social. I occasionally study with my classmates before the big exam, and I also go out to play during vacations, but these classmates haven’t contacted them anymore.

Now

Frankly speaking, I will play games with my colleagues now (-‿◦)

Of course, it's not very popular.. my colleagues and I will play World of Tanks together

In the process, let me unconsciously recall some things from my old high school

I'll be honest.. our delivery has gotten better since I played with them

At work, one of my chariot colleagues would question a certain colleague who was not working seriously and was messing around.

This chariot colleague, let's call him Mr. A.

This Mr. A is a person who usually doesn't show his emotions

And the colleague I called Mr. I was the one I mentioned eating breakfast at work in an article before.

My seniority is one year later than Mr. I, and Mr. A is one year earlier than Mr. I

However, Mr. A's work ability is very good, and his research and development position was later, and now he is a quasi-reserve cadre

So in a sense, Mr. A is qualified to question the progress of my work with Mr. I.

However, Mr. A will always ask Mr. I what he is doing recently, and what is the progress?

If not, he will work with me to work for him (super evil XDDDDD

But this Mr. A never bothers me. I even go on a trip with Mr. A and another colleague who rides a chariot. After get off work, I occasionally play food and treasure hunting near the company.

In the workplace, we even cover each other, and we can say the same thing to the boss

Then you ask me, are these colleagues vulgar? my answer is

I think they are very vulgar

Because in my eyes, they have been in this company for so long (currently they started three years, and they came after graduation from the master's class), and they disliked the low salary and refused to make any changes in their lives.

For me, if I hadn't played games with them, my relationship with them would have been good colleagues at work.

So, does gaming help with socializing?

For me it's a yes answer

I think friendship is

"My bullshit is your bullshit...and your bullshit is my bullshit."

Yes, but when your friend comes to help you, it's like stepping on Your bullshit for him

Bullshit stinks, so what reason do you have to convince someone to deal with the Bullshit you stepped on with you?

Yes, by your usual irrigation

So what are the opportunities to start your "irrigation system"? Looks like it's a good idea to play games together

However, I still need to irrigate when playing games. There is no way to play games together if the level is too different.

So in fact, I have also invested some effort in the matter of playing World of Tanks. I still have some money to play games.

Epilogue

There are always many things in this world that are not pleasing to the eye in life. I used to think that making friends through games was very false.

But I now think that making friends through games is necessary to some extent, it is better to say that the fake will become real after a long time.

Those classmates, even if they go to college, they will be scattered, but at least they have good memories in high school.

And because they have been irrigating each other for a long time, they also take care of each other

On the other hand, I blindly admire myself, the last good friend is not much at all

As I get older, I really understand a sentence