【Jin Yong·The Condor Heroes】No one taught Guo Jing and Huang Rong how to teach children
Guo Jing is a hero who is famous all over the world. He is chivalrous and strong in martial arts. Huang Rong is the leader of the beggar gang, both civil and military. Their daughter, Miss Guo Fu, has low martial arts skills, self-centeredness, over-comprehension, and shallow knowledge. Parents and daughters, one is in the sky and the other is in the ground. Their existence proves that "the father (mother) does not necessarily have the son (daughter)".
Guo Jing can only beat and scold, Huang Rong can only be arrogant, and Huang Rong's influence is greater than Guo Jing. Guo Fu's low martial arts is expected. She is like her father in talent. She is slow to learn, but she is unwilling to work hard. It can be assumed that Huang Rong did not urge Guo Fu to practice. The daughter did something wrong and did not punish Daozheng, and as a result, she developed her super self-centered character. That is to say, the daughter did not learn the skills of her parents, nor did she learn to be considerate of others. The biggest victim was Yang Guo, whose left arm was cut off by Guo Fu.
Failing to teach Guo Fu well, Guo Jing and Huang Rong (especially Huang Rong) got a lot of negative reviews. Did they not teach well, or did they not teach at all? Need-to-know education is an ability that not everyone has. Even in modern times, there are many people who don't know how to teach their children, both professionals and less educated people. I heard from the teacher that some parents do not know how to educate other than beating and scolding. As a result, children only think of their parents beating themselves, and they do not learn anything; "Prince's disease", Guo Fu had been left by Huang Rong for a long time and suffered from a serious princess disease.
Guo Jing and Huang Rong have studied kung fu, but not how to teach children. A friend who is a social worker said that being a parent does not mean that he will teach children. Parents themselves have a lot to learn, but unfortunately no one teaches parents how to teach children. Guo Jing and Huang Rong were like this. After giving birth to a child, they didn't realize that they were lacking in education. This situation can be seen everywhere in modern society.
Will parents who have never learned how to teach their children be scolded for teaching a scumbag child?
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