Inferiority is the passive skill of this generation

Inferiority is one of the most common negative emotions in this generation of young people, and it is often accompanied by stronger negative energy that invades the spirit of all people.

Self-confidence; but it is often given "proud, arrogant, complacent" as a negative term, which is very paradoxical.

It seems that people now see more and more people, things, and things that are different from themselves through social media, and inadvertently develop a comparative mentality. Once the mind of comparison sprouts in the depths of the heart, there will be more dissatisfaction with the current situation. That dissatisfaction may come from economic level, social and economic status, appearance, etc...

When we see a friend post on Instagram that her dad's birthday present was a Gucci bag, our inner imbalance will start whispering to you: "Huh, what is she showing off?" Very few people have the right thinking skills to know "" she's just sharing

• Why do we think others are showing off their wealth?
• Why do we feel that others are showing off?
• Why do we think others are proud?
• Why do we seem to be able to guess what other people are really thinking through the screen?

Suspicion comes from excessive low self-esteem, just like your parents say to their children: "Why is your math score lower than the next door? Are you not studying?"

Since I was a child, I have listened to my relatives by the fireplace and compared their children with others. Since then, we have learned to "comparison" from our family members, but we have also developed a deeper level of "suspiciousness". After a long time, we have questioned all our achievements, and whether they are really good or not, we will be degraded by ourselves as fools. This has long been a habit in Chinese society.

Sometimes there is no reason to feel inferior, right? In the middle of the night, I remembered that my feelings were frustrated, and tears suddenly flowed down. I don't understand why one person has a small theater in the middle of the night. Too many symptoms can easily lead to low self-esteem.

But, do you think you have the money to feel inferior?

Low self-esteem does not have a positive impact on anyone in the long run. Instead, it will fall into the illusion of a "sad card". But is your life really miserable? Could it be that you just think you are miserable, but that's not the truth; or that there are more people who are miserable than you?

Everyone is envious of people who are better off than themselves, complaining that their life is so unhappy, and this vicious circle, but when everyone is desperately trying to escape poverty, you are feeling self-pity; then what do you think you have? Capital in the corner embraces inferiority complex?

Everyone will be haunted by inferiority complex, it is everyone.

Regardless of whether you are at the top of the pyramid today, you will be trapped by unwarranted inferiority. Whether it is a relative, a lover, a friend, a stranger, or a public figure, it can destroy the self-confidence that anyone has carefully built up. Because of that fake. Self-confidence is likely to be self-confidence disguised through stronger humility.

Your self-confidence is not your self-confidence; there is only a fine line between self-confidence and inferiority complex.

The reason why I say this is because when a person with low self-esteem will try to hypnotize himself to be strong in a country of self-confidence in order to avoid the sympathy of others, it is just bad luck.

But when you meet someone who shocks you enough, you will show your true face - low self-esteem.

Many people equate inferiority with ability, savings figure, occupation level, academic performance, beauty and ugliness, emotional distress, etc. Delightful looks are given by parents, savings, studies, and careers are earned by their own efforts, abilities may be granted by teachers, and emotions, not to mention emotions, are fate. In addition to being born with looks, what else is it that you don't get it with your own efforts? If it is said that the rich second generation can get money that we can't make in our lifetime without a lot of effort, that's of course.

Then why should we compare it with those who live in Dibao? We are not Musk's son; we are not Bill Gates' grandson, so why should we sit low and look high?

Who has never been ashamed? But how can you continue to feel inferior?

Inferiority is the passive skill of all people in this society.

However, it is a bad skill that adds its own debuff skills and cannot enhance teammates or own abilities.

Don't blame anyone; don't blame yourself, don't complain; everyone is born on an unfair starting point. Complaining about your injustice will only make your symptoms worse.

If you want to keep rotting in the quagmire of life, keep complaining about "why oooooo yourself". But no matter how much you complain, no one will save you, and the only antidote will not come near you; it will even despise you.

There are many things in the world that try to be useless, but the current love is the first aid medicine, it may disappear; it may be effective forever. But it does get rid of your inferiority complex.

It may sound like bullshit, but aside from your own efforts (because no one can be sure that your efforts will have the desired results) love does temporarily eliminate your low self-esteem.

Why?

Just because even someone who is ashamed and insecure like you has someone who loves you with all his/her love.

Yes, your inferiority complex is not worth mentioning in front of love, those are not the most important.

But this antidote is just an emergency. It is very likely that you will turn away because your symptoms have not improved. At that time, your low self-esteem will be seriously injured by the backlash brought by this special medicine.

At that time you will have to spend more effort to rebuild your self-confidence, and you may also have a more serious "dis-identification" - which we will discuss in detail later.

So once you muster up the courage to take the special medicine, you must work hard to make the expiration date of the medicine Forever.

This is what you should do: let love heal your inferiority complex; instead of being knocked back by inferiority complex, you can take special medicine.

It does whisper to you in order to keep you mired in painful self-doubt: "What qualifications do you have to give people happiness?" But if you throw up the white flag in the midst of self-doubt, you'll be forever ridden by inferiority complex. Remember an argument: Humans cannot eliminate inferiority, but control inferiority!

"Love" is the rein, the drug that controls inferiority, don't abandon it. Put inferiority and self-confidence on the left and right sides of the scale, let self-confidence be greater than your inferiority complex, and your self-confidence will no longer be connected with inferiority.

It will become true. confidence.

Remember, when you get to this point in this article, you don't have the money to feel inferior.

Find your special medicine and be a desperate Saburo for those who recognize you!