short curly hair

Long hair has always been my dream. When I was a child, because my mother had to take care of four daughters, she had no time to help us tie our hair, so when we were young, we almost always wore short hair. At that time, my cousin had long black hair, which made me envious every time I saw it, so I made up my mind that when she grew up, she must become a long-haired girl.

Yesterday, another article popped up on Facebook. It turned out to be because I had a short haircut, and I still had short curly hair. I rarely cut short hair, no matter how short it is, it still exceeds the length of the collar, so that haircut was a very courageous thing.

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Last year, I not only cut my hair short, but also permed it. This should be the first time I tried short curly hair since I was a child. I have always had a lot of hair. After I walked out of the beauty salon, I felt really light and relaxed~ I believe I should have lost a lot of weight. (laugh)

However, short and perm hair does not mean that you look younger or better, but I like this change. If it were the previous me, I might cry right away, but now, one more attempt is a good thing for me.

I remember that when my hairstyle changed drastically in the past (dramatic refers to cutting off a long hair), it was mostly to suit my mood. When I was in a bad mood, I used to cut my hair to express my inner emotions, just like cutting To get rid of the troubles or anger in the heart. And that time was really just trying to see what my hair could do.

My daughter once said: "The hair will grow again. I always want to try different hairstyles. Maybe I can find my own unique hairstyle."

So I also want to know if I can also find the ideal hairstyle in my mind.

As soon as this thought appeared, I immediately went to make an appointment for a perm, without giving myself any chance to regret it, but when I made an appointment, I started to feel nervous again. This kind of situation really suits my personality.

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When I was young, I always thought that long curly hair was romantic and elegant, because at the celebration of high school, I met a senior who had graduated. She had long curly hair with big waves, and was wearing a simple T-shirt and jeans. Carrying a large bag back to my alma mater, my eyes were deeply attracted by this senior, and I felt that her appearance was really beautiful and handsome. So I made a wish, not only to have long hair, but also to have long curly hair like her after graduation. This is what I want to do most after I get out of the hair ban.

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The reality is always cruel. After my hair grows, I did try it, because I have a lot of hair, and the hair quality is too hard. The long hair stays, and the curly hair is hot. Although it is not ugly, it is not elegant.

However, I know the result of each time, and I still have long curly hair that is not flowing. It's contradictory to keep yourself in this cycle all the time, isn't it?

Just like we often just want to be content with the status quo, do not want to make too many changes, and dare not take risks, because this is the easiest and safest. But this kind of thinking will only make me stagnant, unable to generate the motivation for progress. ( It's just a hair change, so serious)

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I remember looking at myself in the mirror at that time, the short curly hair didn't seem to match my face so well, it even made me look a little round, but with the romantic curls still made me happy and felt that my breakthrough was a good thing.

Although it's been almost a year since I've started growing long hair again, having had this experience in my life, at least the next time I'm going to change my hairstyle, I have an option for short curly hair. I think as long as it's curly hair, it's a romantic hairstyle for me.