"Don't let the bad things in the present drive away the good things in the future" | Believe in yourself more, because the future will be better than you think

I have been following Irwin. The first time I met Irwin was because of his financial management books. At the age of 29, an accident made him rethink his life and left his office life. He started to share his financial management experience on the blog, and then he started. I run my own Youtube , mainly to share learning and growth related content from reading books. When I first started watching videos, there were not many subscribers. In just a few years, the number of subscriptions has almost reached 700,000. I like watching him share in the books. His views combined with his life experience will always provide me with different thinking and inspiration than before.

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"Don't let the bad things in the present drive away the good things in the future" is an inspirational essay, divided into five chapters - "confidence", "life", "growth", "persistence", "getting along", including 40 sharp and warm articles The "Ai Yulu" is very suitable for writing on your mobile phone or notepad to remind and motivate yourself all the time. The author's experience is just like that of many people. He will not miss any time to study in order to prepare for the graduate examination, and will also be busy until twelve o'clock in the middle of the night in order to complete the company's planning book. made him who he is now. Also because I often watch Erwin's films, while reading this book, I always have the feeling of watching Erwin's films. Every word in the book is like he is speaking in the film. Think rationally. The following are the sentences I found most touching in the book to share with you.

Talk about self-confidence

As long as it is a person, there will be feelings of envy of another person, but too much will hurt. When you often envy others as if they have everything and can do everything. It's easy to underestimate what you're doing, and even deny what you originally loved.

You don't need to be a positive person in everything, because it's more tiring at times, but you must be a person who can see your own good.

talk about life

No matter where you go, you will meet reality. It's just whether you can accept that reality or not. If you can't accept it, don't force it, there's no need to force yourself to the point that there is only one way to go.

In this world you just have to compare yourself to the old you. Persist in making yourself a little better every day, insist on doing what you plan to do, and keep moving towards the goal you want. To be able to do this is already a great achievement.

Life is usually not a straight line, it is not what you chose in the past, and the future is destined to be that way; it is not a formula, not what you encounter today, there will only be one result.

Sometimes, we do lose the motivation to move forward because we hate the current life, but more often the reason why we can get the life we want is because you have tasted the life you hate before you know what the life you like is like. .

talk about growth

When you fall into the mentality of pursuing perfection, you must quickly pull yourself out, not only will it make you stagnant, it will also make you less confident on the road. On the surface, the pursuit of perfection may seem like a positive attitude, but in fact it also implies that the effort you put in is not enough for a day, and it is not worth enjoying any results. Continued effort is important, but if you lose the ability to affirm yourself, it's easy to love things that you hate and give up.

No matter how well planned, there is still room for compromise. Pushing yourself too hard will make the way forward too difficult. It is good to maintain the general direction and principle. Even if the end result is not as good as expected, you have taken several more steps because of this, become better than before, and know yourself better than before. As long as you work in the right direction, the rest is only about time, and no one can grasp the time. The only certainty is that if you don't move forward, the best result will only be the status quo.

talk about persistence

A clear and well-defined avenue rarely appears in life, and it is only after walking through it that you know whether it is suitable or not. And it's almost certain that no path will be in vain if you work hard to take every step in the present moment. If you don't go through that, you'll never know what you hate, and you'll never know what you like.

In the face of an uncertain future, it is the best way to work hard on what you are doing, and then learn from it the abilities that you can bring with you, and make it a step for you to grow up. Maybe you won't find the answer right away, but it's definitely better than feeling helpless and overwhelmed.

talk about getting along

Letting go of yourself doesn't mean you did something wrong, but tells yourself that you shouldn't be trapped by bad emotions anymore, don't torture yourself with the bad emotions that arise during quarrels, but pull back the one who is willing to care about the other person come out.

Many times, we will be sad for a long time because of someone else's words, but we forget that we only need a word from ourselves to be happy again.

Instead of caring about how hurtful those words are, you should be more concerned about whether those ugly words are worth repeating in your heart.

Epilogue

During the period of studying in Germany, there were always many low ebbs. Sometimes I even felt that maybe I didn’t come to Germany to study at the beginning, and I might have a smoother life in Taiwan to study in a graduate school, and I would not encounter so many setbacks and difficulties, but later Thinking about the pursuit of a smooth life is actually an unrealistic idea. We will not be able to eliminate the difficulties that will be encountered in the future just because of one choice. More importantly, we must cultivate the courage to face difficulties. Feeling uneasy, worried, afraid, regretful about which path you choose and which path you give up.

It is highly recommended to read this book for people who are at a low ebb or have no motivation to move forward. Maybe these inspirational essays seem to be clichés but we don't take it to heart. This book will not teach you how to make your life more smooth. But it will make you more courageous to face life. The author will not tell you that as long as you step out bravely and persevere, you will achieve your dreams, but at the same time tell you that reality is cruel, and the efforts you put in may not get the expected results, but In the process of pursuing your dreams, you will meet a better self than you are now.

The person who has been with us the longest in this life is actually ourselves, but we often struggle with ourselves, we often doubt ourselves in the face of the future, and spend a lot of time worrying about troubles but not moving forward. Rather than working hard to become the person we want to be, we should Accept your good and bad to be who you like.

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