It hurts the children and hurts the hearts of the parents.
You can feel it without being a parent.
I have been checking the original text of this sentence and found:
Zhang Youluan's "Qinhuai Ink Painting" in the 82nd chapter, it is mentioned in it: If you really want to scold Chen Cheng, it's fine. How can I use those words and sing songs, every sentence is "the child's body, the pain is in the mother's heart".
Why keep checking? Because I have always misunderstood, this is a proverb or slang from a long time ago, how did it appear in the early Republic of China? Give up the investigation, and use this as the original source. Maybe there are gods on the page who will know, if gods see it.
This article started recording on August 14th. The sooner it appears in front of everyone, the better.
Go back many, many years ago, why did I go vegetarian? After the birth of the first child, he was still an infant. He had a high fever and was admitted to the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit because he could not find the reason. At that time, my wife and I made a vow: if the child is safe, he will be vegetarian for one year.
The one-year deadline is up, and the child is healthy and safe. The second child reported. Because of insufficient weeks, he was born more than a month early. He was taken in the ambulance and sent to the hospital incubator. At the same time, I extended the period of vegetarianism.
Because of the pain in my child, I gave up meat and food, and I realized the heart of my parents at that time.
When I was born, I was severely jaundiced and survived through whole body exchange blood. My parents felt the same way at that time!
Today, the two children are safe and strong, each taller than me. I believe that it is not the work of vegetarianism, but their own efforts, eating hard, growing up, and fighting hard. .
Now, there is another cat daughter in the family. The original intention of raising her is very simple. Help me catch mice in the backyard of the supermarket, really. Friends who have read my previous articles should know! She is like our unrelated family. I left the supermarket and she came into our lives. momo, has a cute personality and likes to bite my daughter.
Zhiling always joked that I was "Babadidi" in front of momo, "Baba" because I raised her, "Didi" because of my status, she has great respect for the two brothers and can do whatever they want. Touching and sucking, she was even more obedient to Zhiling. As soon as Zhiling made her nasal voice, momo knew to restrain herself. Except for me, she only likes to bite me, bite, sometimes gently, sometimes playfully, and sometimes see blood.
The few times she saw blood: The first time she played in the backcourt, because of her young age, she ran into a bunch of lines, and her body was entangled. I tried to rescue her, because it would hurt to tighten, and I saw my hand was ruthless. I took a bite.... After rescuing her, she acted coquettishly with me for the first time, her whole heart melted, blood is nothing~
This time, it was because of the treatment of her wound. [rupture of anal glands]. I thought it was a case on the Internet, but momo encountered it. The wound was so big that I didn't dare to look at it at all....... At the doctor's place, it was necessary to shave and clean the sores, that kind of Pain, it was the first time she kept looking at me, and it hurt so badly that she bit me.
"Momo, it's me, it hurts~" When she found out, she let go. But the doctor cleaned the sore again, and she was so in pain that she could only bite again.
The pain is in her body, and the pain in my heart is also in my body!
Gray-blue cat, I read her sharing recently. A few days ago, she wrote about the death of Hua Hua and Bai Bai's mother, and she was also worried about Bai Bai's body. To be honest, to understand this feeling, you really have to experience it yourself. Comfort is comfort. I really don't know what to say about this? Because this is life, we all meet...
"What's wrong with momo?" one of the waitresses in the clinic asked us.
"Ruptured anal glands," Zhiling replied.
"momo is brave, not afraid, not afraid!" she told momo so softly.
We took momo to another hospital. The incident happened on a Sunday. The doctor who usually sees momo was resting, so we had to find another hospital. The doctor suggested momo to be hospitalized.
"The blood test is normal. This allows her to recover naturally, keep her dry, and don't need to be hospitalized!" The doctor said after reading the wound and the report.
After leaving the clinic, I greeted the lady "You should be a loving mother!"
The woman was surprised and said, "How do you know, do I take two cats to see a doctor at a time?"
"No, it's because of that kindness and kindness!"
That's that kind of experience and empathy!
After adopting momo, it was the first time she didn't sleep with us that night. She must have been very scared. Now, I brought her home, and the wound is still there. , I can't ......
Chi Ling would laugh at me again, "If you don't want to do it, don't make excuses!". I'm afraid of blood, I'm afraid of bloody, I'm afraid of that kind of fear~
However, in Zhiling, I saw the strength of motherhood.
Here is a record~~~
When I was hospitalized, the doctor specially photographed the local wound, which was so deep... I didn't even want to look at it.
For the past few days, momo is still enduring the pain. He doesn't sleep at night. He calls us every few minutes. He can feel at ease when he hears our voice. With a hood, everything is inconvenient.
"Don't try to dismantle it, for momo's sake, or the wound will get worse after licking!" Whenever I touched momo, Zhiling definitely reminded loudly, because she knew me.
On the fifth day, the wound began to heal. At night, I found a way to let momo sleep peacefully, turn on the light, turn on the TV...
On the sixth day now, the doctor said that the wound shrank on its own and recovered well!
Hope everyone is safe and healthy! Don't worry about others, and don't worry about people.
Watching momo wear a hood, I finally know one thing
I kept calling him the trumpet man. It turned out that he was a hooded man wearing a hood. Maybe he was afraid that he would lick the wound~~~~~
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