181. Successful people don’t make excuses, don’t let themselves go down the stairs

The four letters BCDJ are the biggest obstacle in our pursuit of financial freedom, causing us to waste our energy and fail to achieve our goals, you can start to succeed or keep making excuses.

BLAME (blame):

You can blame others, you can accept the reality, and adapt to the situation. We have all fallen into negative energy. It will devour us like quicksand. Before you fall, give yourself a hand. The world doesn’t owe you anything. Take control of what you can. When the control part is beyond your ability to control, just relax, you are not an ace god , there will always be bumps in life, I choose to raise my head and face it.

COMPLAIN (complaining):

Complaining is very refreshing, and the moment you vent it out, you will start to complain about any trivial thing. Complaining is a bad habit. I used to like to complain, until I found that complaining can't solve things at all. When you keep complaining , you'll go crazy (cynic), and of course I'm complaining now, but I'll take it in moderation and be careful not to bleed like a broken faucet.

DEFEND (do not admit mistakes):

It’s not difficult to admit mistakes, everyone makes mistakes, there’s nothing to be ashamed of, don’t insist on defending your position, sour people will not disappear, please listen rationally, accept all this with an extremely open attitude, if it’s someone else’s problem, don’t get caught up in it In an emotional storm, the best response is to focus on moving forward and not get caught up in the struggle, which can save you a lot of time to do more meaningful things.

JUSTIFY (make excuses):

You know yourself if you are right or not. Don’t make excuses for your failures. Failure is not shameful. It is shameful to keep repeating the same mistakes and making excuses . Don’t deceive yourself. Growing up, it falls into mediocrity among those who make excuses for themselves, and it may still be confused as to why it can't make it.

We tend to worry about other people's opinions in our lives and affect our words and deeds. This hinders us from moving forward. This is caused by fear, shame and guilt. When we are afraid, we attack others because we believe that we are attacked, so Need to fight back, this is a power struggle, please step out of the arena, open the door, and see the path that belongs to you!

Everyone is a strange person, because we are all unique people, other people's vision is not important, of course, the important thing is not to hinder others, please live for your own benefit, you can change the world.