Does it have to be "infallible"?

It turned out that the unit price of the restaurant was quite high for the students. I wanted to refuse to participate in the dinner party. I thought that this might be one of the ways to get to know each other deeply. I just joined the club, and I didn’t appear to be out of the group. Then, he nodded and raised his hand to agree to participate.

After the dinner, I didn't seem to realize much, and the way of getting along was the same as usual. In addition to the meal being judged unpalatable by everyone (personally I think it's okay, just ordinary), where is the value of this meal reflected? Is this cost worth it? Do you want to participate in future dinner parties?

Do you want to find a coffee shop nearby for brunch ? Or go for a walk in Yangmingshan?

Assuming you go to Yangmingshan, the return trip back down the mountain should be in the afternoon and evening, and the pre-planned to-do items (reading, cleaning, studying, etc.) are still in the "to-do" state, but the rare weekend holiday is coming to an end. , and if you choose not to go to Yangmingshan, you will feel a pity for the good weather that day.

This kind of analysis, comparison and hesitation stems from the fear of "choosing the wrong" and then missing out. It's better to think about everything, and always have to be "safe" and ready before taking action . When the results are not as expected, I feel "remorseful".

So I wandered among the options of A or B or C (or even D), trying to choose a satisfactory choice, but the truth is that at that moment, it is often difficult to judge the so-called "good or bad".

I should have known long ago that many things in life are relative; even after hesitating for a long time, I didn’t make it to the coffee shop, and Yangmingshan was too lazy to climb near noon, so I had to run to exercise. After I finished walking back to my residence, I looked up at the blue sky and realized The weather is still very good, here and in Yangmingshan, the good weather will not change, the key is how to "see", rather than "outside" to find. A trip to Yangmingshan doesn't show that weekends and holidays are particularly fulfilling, it's not like that.

"Where the heart is, the man is there"; simply don't presume a position, don't care about gains and losses, and enjoy it to the fullest. Is it a waste to do nothing? Just find out, whatever the outcome, every moment is a limited edition .