i'm sad too

I often hear people say: To be a human being, let go of your attachments. It seems to make sense, but it’s actually easier said than done. For example, I can let go of my attachments, but some of my relatives, friends, and even colleagues don’t know how to let go. They go to the horns for simple things that are almost boring, and then use that negative energy. Fully distributed, forming a vicious circle, consuming everyone's patience and strength, so what is good?

Sometimes we are in a good mood and go to work or school happily, but unfortunately we come into contact with some kind of people who are like hedgehogs. Their thoughts, words and deeds are all stabbed, either hurting others or intimidating everyone. , constantly denying our efforts, slandering the value created by the team, and specifically magnifying some unimportant flaws. On the surface, it appears to be shrewd and unseen, but in fact it is superfluous to nitpick. They are always afraid that everyone will be too comfortable, so they have to make waves, or put forward some impossible indicators, as if to make everyone feel uneasy to be satisfied. Faced with such a "burden", anyone will be in a bad mood at light, or hurt at worst, and I am also sad.

When I was young, I was overwhelmed, and when faced with such distressing situations, I always wanted to resist, to clarify, to prove that it wasn't like that. But after a certain age and having experienced enough toss, I gradually realized that people who emit negative energy are everywhere, and to explain or clarify to them is simply a trap to add interest to their boring life. The real solution to this dilemma is to learn to ignore this kind of person, to ignore this kind of thing, to stop unnecessary comparisons, and to make yourself strong enough not to be easily shaken, to confidently deal with boring questions, and to let those who are insignificant. It's hard for the uneducated to find room for nitpicking.

We must believe that we are doing useful and constructive things, so don’t be influenced by worthless people and things, stay away from the weakness they preach, kick away the inferiority they spread, and let them keep their sorrows for themselves . Only in this way can you have the conditions to live a meaningful life and avoid being dragged down by others.