Don't let the dream in your mouth become the reason and excuse to avoid responsibility / Fang Qingjun

At work, a client came to chat with the boss, because the boss's daughter was painting, and the paintings were displayed around our office. While they were talking, the client asked if the boss's daughter was still painting?

The boss laughed and said that now his daughter is going to work. After all, in Taiwan, there is no way out for painting. Then, following this topic, the guest mentioned his friend. There is also a child who loves to paint. After graduating from school, he doesn’t go to work and stays home all day I just paint, I don't want to do anything, and I rely on my family for food.

In the beginning, the family thought it was okay. The children had ideals and ambitions, and parents should have supported them. But over time, it seemed that something was wrong. Accumulating, looking useless and unable to exchange money, I feel that I have unknowingly raised rice worms.

Later, of course, the family hoped that the child would stop painting and go out to work, anyway, to make a living, at least not to be out of touch with society.

As a result, the child was unwilling, crying, making trouble, hanging himself, and then saying that this is what I want to do, I just want to paint, and other industries are not suitable for me. The father and son quarreled like this, and it got out of hand, and the relationship became very tense, so I talked about this with a friend.

 The boy's father said helplessly: "Yes, the pictures are good, but so what? If no one appreciates your talent, it's just a beautiful piece of paper. Can you eat? Can you live?"

The child is also unwilling to give in, clinging to his dream, and no one can stop him. He seems to have the momentum of burning jade and stone, but he relies on the financial support of his family again and again.

People who paint, who doesn't want to be famous like Picasso or Van Gogh?
To be realistic, before that day comes, no one knows whether you are a rice bug or a famous painter, or you may die before you realize it, or you may never have this day.

In fact, at the end of the day, parents only ask their children to support themselves. They don’t want to have any dreams, and they don’t want to raise children who will be old in the future. It’s just that these parents are too slow to wake up...

However, this child has the determination to advance and retreat with his dream, but of course he spends the money given by his parents.

Although I was busy with my work beside me, I had a lot of thoughts in my mind after hearing this, right?

Music is the same, it should be said that many parts have similarities.
You are full of dreams, but not responsible for yourself,

Without income, your family can only feel that you are degraded all day long, and that you do not strive for improvement. This is the reality; your dreams are your business, but why should your life be burdened by others?

So if you really can't survive on your interests, please support yourself first, because everyone has what they need to live, and it's your own responsibility.

The prerequisite for chasing dreams is that only when you stand firm, you can go longer. How to achieve a balance and do your best, but don’t become a reason and excuse to avoid responsibility.

I say this because I am a creator myself, but I go to work during the day and go home at night to do what I have to do. It has been more than 20 years, and I have a lot of works. There is not only one option for what I like, you can take care of it. live, or find the best way to achieve it. Share it with everyone.