Notes on opening a Spank back garden

Warning: This article involves the sexual fetish of spanking, please don’t read it if you are not interested, thank you.

Hello everyone, I am an ordinary girl from mainland China.

Because of this epidemic, there have been more articles being read over the wall than before, so I was lucky enough to come into contact with Matters. Needless to say, crossing GFW, there are many collisions and growth in politics and culture. Perhaps one thing that is more special than most people is that as a kid who has had the kink of spank since he was a child (it is tentatively translated as sexual fetish, he should be able to develop it in the future) I have translated a short article on distinguishing between kink and fetish. Professionals are welcome to give me advice. I have found that there are many rational and frank discussions on such a relatively niche topic outside the wall, and I have also seen many personal collections. , websites and blogs that record spank-related content and personal thoughts, which are really great.

Like many things, I realized a long time ago but did not think about it. Such a hobby on the edge actually combines collective and freedom, power and culture, pioneers and traditions, sex and love and other personal survival in the world. Many dilemmas are gathered into one, and there is a lot of room for speech. However, due to my lack of knowledge and inclination to think deeply, the public discussion environment in the circle and long-standing cultural taboos due to the "one-size-fits-all" censorship of relevant content within the wall, I have been shelving it, and I have never even thought about it. To pick it up, just treat it as a secret passion that never sees the light of day.

The habit of climbing over the wall and encountering Matters brought about by the epidemic brought a turn to all this. In-depth thinking does not happen overnight. In addition to expressing my thoughts and feelings about spank (a little popular science: usually referred to as sp) , this back garden will mainly publish and briefly comment on sp paintings that bloggers like from time to time (hope to become a regular post) , but XP cannot be guaranteed) and reprinting or translating literary or academic works about sp. Within the wall, the blogger also wrote some sp novels, but most of them disappeared with the waves of censorship and website closure. I am not sure whether I will write them again in the future. In addition, as can be seen in this article, there will be necessary sp science popularization related to the topic, and it is not ruled out that there will be a special science popularization section in the future. However, since it is called the "back garden", it is a relatively private and free place, so other content about SP may suddenly appear when you are interested.

In this newbie report post, let me introduce the two pictures that serve as my Matters avatar and cover and what they mean to me.

First is the cover.

[Little popular science] In the SP field, the slash / is used to distinguish the party who gives punishment and the party who is punished. The party before the slash is the party who gives punishment, and the party after the slash is the party who gives punishment. The most common party who gives/receives punishment is M (man, Man) and F (female, woman), while the lowercase m and f refer to underage boys and girls respectively, but this usage of lowercase does not seem to be used within the wall.

This is the work of an SP painter who may have come from Germany and called himself R. Planitz . His paintings are presumed to have been created in the 1920s. Due to the particularity of sp themes, many sp painters choose to use pseudonyms, and we often know very little about them. Not many of Planitz's works can be found on the Internet, and only a few of them can touch my heart, but this one has suddenly become my favorite work. Of course, like all appreciations, what I like is naturally the painting in my understanding. According to a certain theory, an objectively correct interpretation does not exist.

According to the title of the painting, this scene takes place in a city garden. Maybe it was a weekend, or maybe it was after work or school in the evening, and the parents took their six or seven-year-old daughter for a walk in the city park while pushing their younger son/daughter in the stroller. The older daughter made a mistake by chance, or something she had done earlier. The mistake was exposed at this time, and the somewhat angry mother pulled her to the park bench, and spanked her little buttocks until it turned red with her big hands, which were kind to her and rough from daily work, just like every time before, It's so popular that she remembers this mistake and doesn't violate it again. The father put his hands on the bench behind his wife who was busy inflicting punishment and leaned forward. He sat on the side and looked at his wife and daughter gently. The younger brother/sister had fallen asleep in the stroller. The sun was shining just right, and the street trees behind him were green. This scene of an ordinary yet warm family life might have caught the eye of an artist passing by by chance, and he cut it out and blended it into this painting.

This is my understanding of sp: in the family (different from schools and courts), with a meaning of correction, and in an environment of family love and warmth (the above two are different from erotic meaning and pure power) Meaning) corporal punishment. This is a very specific and subtle description of where my heart is, or where my passion lies. It is more complicated than simply saying that I prefer F/f and M/f is acceptable, but in fact it is only part of a more complete narrative. That’s all, I’ll leave more self-analysis to you later in the back garden. Each of the differences in the parentheses above is content that other fans (a little popular science: the reference to the relationship between people in the sp circle within the wall) like. The process of discovering that I am in love with sp and exploring sp has made me more aware of the complexity of lust (no wonder some foreign scholars attribute sexual proclivities including sp to the Q in LGBTQ) and the fact that I live in a society composed of all kinds of people. , the difficulty of truly satisfying one's own desires and the various paradoxes involved.

As a holder of a niche hobby, you should be aware of being questioned by the public. But there are so many questions that I can think of that if I take them all into consideration, I can’t write them down. I can only ask everyone to ask questions in the comments and answer them one by one. As mentioned before, "Such a hobby on the edge actually combines many dilemmas that individuals face in the world, such as collectiveness and freedom, power and culture, pioneers and tradition, sex and love." I also have many confusion, these confusions also constitute the starting point for thinking. I feel more and more that a point of view, no matter how reasonable it is now, or how loud it is, is just a way station for us to understand the world. Many things will not have answers in our lifetime, but fortunately we are always on the way.

Here I only answer in advance a question that may involve public morality or platform rules, that is, whether this back garden will involve pornographic content. A very personal answer (because what can be discussed and what cannot be discussed, and the relationship between individual freedom and social operation is the larger background behind this issue, and I have no intention of getting involved at the moment) is that SP has always boasted that It is separate from bdsm (a little knowledge: I actually don’t know much about this field, but bdsm is abbreviated as sm, which is usually understood as sexual abuse, and I think everyone has heard of it). It is a relatively pure field that focuses on love. , and my personal favorite fields of F/f and M/f also have an unwritten hidden criterion. It seems that those with no frontal nudity and no sexual connotation are better. In fact, because of modern regulations , political correctness and other reasons, in the United States, only F/f and M/f paintings that meet the above two conditions (photos are considered illegal) can exist legally. Although I personally hold a wait-and-see attitude towards separation and artificial regulations in all fields because of my major, in terms of my own passion, I happen to be a loyal or even fanatical believer in the above two distinctions. However, this only introduces the inner culture and American law. In the Chinese-speaking world, this is still a gray area, so unwritten rules can only be reached through public discussions. As far as I am concerned, I can only hope that everyone will not like it but still allow such a back garden to exist.

At the end of the article, I will introduce what my avatar means to me.

There are many kinds of reading and learning. In mainland China, the learning we are taught since childhood is ascetic and superficial. For me, after entering the academic world, I hope that I will have two kinds of reading, one is academic, which is detailed, true, and precise; the other is reading the world, reading everything, using whatever can be captured Sparks of thought to nourish your life. In actual operation, the two cannot be completely distinguished, and I also hope that their mutual cooperation and integration can gradually produce a better self.

Strictly speaking, the reading of the sp world that I have only recently started to consciously do is the latter, which is like the picture in this picture, reading comfortably but seriously under the bright yellow sunshine. I hope the sunshine in my back garden will always be so good and I will always be so comfortable.

Welcome to see you here and visit us often.