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So I became a single-living tenant who was always in danger in the eyes of the landlord

[Xiaoyu is good or not] Xiaoyu's messy life-17
On the day of the big quarrel with the former landlord, I was so angry that I posted on the community

Fortunately, a few weeks after the incident, I have found a new rental place and moved in smoothly. I will write and record this article and podcast to share the dispute with the former landlord. The incident is attached at the end of the article. You can listen to the Podcast version of this episode.

(00:00:00) Bless you all landlords
(00:00:59) Let's talk about the ghost story of renting a house
(00:19:54) On the day after the consultation, there was a strong emotional storm of suicidal ideation
(00:29:30) Birth, old age, sickness, and death, old age and sickness are in the middle of life and death
(00:36:38) The whole thing is not quite right
(00:48:54) Summary: Basic legal rights to rent out
(00:54:03) Chicken Cake wants to tell you

Xiaoyu's "normal energy release",
It is the existence of "abnormal and dangerous" in the eyes of the landlord,
This time, Chicken Cake tells a ghost story from personal experience,
Talk about the plight of the renters of Xiaoyu patients,
And those unspeakable mental stigma and discrimination in reality.

The dispute that has lasted for more than half a month is now considered a safe and smooth solution, or it is time to move, just postpone it, don't be so urgent

Every wanderer who goes out, please actively understand and defend your legal rights. The emotional storm I experienced this time has made me understand myself more deeply. I also began to practice self-scrubbing of the influence of my native family on myself. Those parts that I hate the most about myself, It is one of the nutrients that my family of origin gave me

Extended Resources - Mama Cui Foundation QA
Civil law, criminal law, land law and the spirit of contract



Conflict Process (transcription of the transcript)

2021/03/15 Monday afternoon <br class="smart">Something happened these days, it is like this:

It may be due to the adjustment of the drug dose and the recent cooperation cases that I have received. I am tired and lethargic for nearly three days. I skipped another week for the Podcast update. In the middle of the lethargy, I will wake up briefly, drink water and eat, and then continue to lethargic.

The bad luck is that I missed the time when I agreed with the landlord's wife to pay the rent while I was sleeping. The phone is usually set to vibrate mode, and the phone and messages are basically unreceivable even when the power is turned off. When I see and hear it, I don't have the strength to respond, so I gradually get used to not ringing the bell.

The landlord's wife couldn't find anyone, and she made too many phone calls and contacted me indirectly through my former colleague who lived next door, but I didn't get a response from me. So one night,
(I'm confused and the timeline can't be connected)
I just remember hearing a few loud knocks on the door, and then the landlord and his wife opened the door and rushed into the room to see me lying flat on the gaming chair without electricity.

The two elderly people are usually very concerned about the tenants. During the festivals, there are candy, fruit, rice dumplings, glutinous rice balls and so on. The two people are very loud and anxious, but I don't remember what they said. I said I was fine, I just needed a rest seizures, normal energy play)

The last thing I remember is that the landlady said that maybe it was the death of the grandmother and she was going to be shocked and so on.

As a result, the next morning, the landlady opened the door again because she didn't answer the phone and knocked on the door. She said that she was very reluctant to open the door like this and invaded her privacy. Then she was very excited, very loud, and dragged me to the Tiangong Temple to surprise me. I can squeeze out the last bit of strength while pulling the big bath towel that acts as a thin quilt and say, "Please, don't do it in peace..."

It wasn't until two o'clock in the afternoon, I just woke up and received a call from my mother saying that I was coming to Tainan to find me. He heard that my voice was weak and was very worried. I said that I don't have to make this trip and I'll be fine.

In the end... my parents came to my place in a car.

Clam! Don't you say don't use it?
Just tell me to pack up and move back

I still don't know what's going on and it's impossible for me to move back because the family of origin is one of the main stressors

Finally, to discuss the agreement, let's try to live in Tainan for consultation and treatment and go back to Kaohsiung for half the time every week, so that they can see that it hurts just by imagining people, but they can't think of a better way at the moment.

After my sister chewed the translation of konjac, it seemed that the whole thing was that the landlady hit me for two consecutive days.

So the landlady called me directly to my hometown in Kaohsiung

My home number should be the one that was originally signed in the contract. My mother and my sister took turns calling me. The battery was broken. People couldn't receive calls all morning. My parents would drive directly to Tainan to ask me to pack my things because they thought the landlady was frightened. probably don't want me to continue living

At the moment, I really cry to the sky without words, saying how absurd it is, how absurd it is

That sounds good...
The landlady is afraid that his house will turn into a haunted house Lao Bei Lao Mu is afraid that their children will suddenly die and I, every possible option puts a lot of pressure on me, whether it is to stay, pack up and go back to my hometown, or find a new place to move.

Also, skip me and call my parents responsible, what is the logic of harassing all the way to my hometown?


Strong suicidal ideation emotional storm strikes

2021/03/17 After the consultation, I calmed down a lot and thought about it. I didn't do anything wrong except that I was lethargic and scared the landlord and the old couple. "Tooth up" to nearly 2200, about 5:00

In short, I won't let his house become a haunted house, and I won't move back to Kaohsiung.
You have to make sure you don't die

Continues until 2021/03/18 The emotional storm of strong suicidal ideation has survived the first time in my life that I feel what is meant by "every cerebral blood vessel is about to burst"


There is no most bullshit, only more bullshit, so compelling that there is no way out

2021/03/20 Standing in the room the night after the explosion, looking at every corner, thinking about where to start cleaning up, the more I think about it, the more I feel that the landlord really cares that his house turns into a haunted house, and he doesn't even think about driving him away It is a sick life, old age, sickness and death, old age and sickness are placed between life and death

At noon, the landlord called and said that he found someone to rent. He told me not to live out by myself. I would die. I took a nap and missed two calls from him. Working girls of similar age
U quality, like it, I put my phone far away for him

I confirmed with my family that my father is also on fire. I told you that you will be moved out in ten days. You also said that you will find the next tenant.
You also have to give time to let people find a rental place before moving in. Landlady, you make me very unhappy.

Moreover, the landlady was still acting as a double-faced person on this phone call until noon today. Unlike the two sides, she called me almost every day from my hometown to ask me when I could move out.

To me it's "Are you okay? It's fine"
My old Bei is angry because he said that the next tenant contract was signed and the money was taken. Please I must move out before the end of the month. What I told me was that someone he knew said he wanted to rent. Can move back to Kaohsiung

All I can say is that the people who can annoy my Laobei are true. talent

 I also suddenly discovered that my repressed personality may be very similar to that of Lao Bei. Listening to my sister's retelling of the tone on the phone, the tone of my response to something angry recently is almost exactly the same.

I want to assert my legitimate legal rights

Friends around me told me one after another that it is unreasonable to ask someone to find a new place and empty it in ten days, don’t you think it is strange?

Searching the Internet for rental housing disputes, I found that I was in a state of extreme anxiety and a little bit of peace when the spirit of the contract and the legal provisions were completely tenable

Mama Choi Foundation
https://www.tmm.org.tw/contents/text?id=85

Generally speaking, the lease contract will have a term, but if there are the following reasons, it will become a so-called "indefinite lease": (1) According to Article 422 of the Civil Law, if the lease term exceeds one year, it shall be stipulated in writing , if not agreed in writing, it is regarded as an indefinite tenancy agreement. (2) According to Article 451 of the Civil Law, after the lease term expires, if the tenant continues to live in the rental property, and the landlord does not express any objection and continues to collect rent, it will be regarded as an indefinite lease with an indefinite term. It should be noted that, in practice, the landlord must be subject to the restrictions of Article 100 of the Land Law in order to terminate the indefinite tenancy agreement.
When the house is rented out, although the landlord has the ownership, the full right to use the house belongs to the tenant. When the landlord enters the rental house, he must obtain the consent of the tenant, otherwise he cannot enter or leave at will. If the landlord enters the rental house without the consent of the tenant, he may be involved in Article 306 of the Criminal Law, "the crime of trespassing on another's house without reason".
Landlord's repossession condition under indefinite tenancy agreement
1. When the lessor takes back his own residence or rebuilds the building
2. The lessee violates the provisions of Article 443, Paragraph 1 of the Civil Code, and sublets the lease to another person
3. The lessee owes the rent, in addition to the security payment, when the rent is more than 2 months
4. When the tenant uses the house for illegal use
5. When the lessee violates the lease contract
6. When the lessee damages the lessor's house or attached property, and does not compensate the lessor, the above paragraph 3 stipulates that the rent owed by the tenant must still owe more than 2 months' rent after deducting the deposit before the termination can be terminated.

The land law has 100 articles. Just after I checked the landlord and the couple, they knocked on the door. I walked out of the room and calmly said, "I want to assert my legal rights."
Hearing the word "law", the old lady disconnected rationally. The old gentleman could understand people's words. The old lady just collapsed and kept attacking me personally.

In the spirit of the contract, the rent is paid every six months, so I can live until June. I have explained all the ins and outs to the old gentleman. From the beginning, I have always watched the old lady act in a big play. I have been talking to the old gentleman. Telling his wife to shut up is so noisy... let me use roar

Saying that I have torn my face and have no mercy, hello? You are discriminating against depression. When other people sleep during the day, you don't want to go in and see if they are breathing, do you? (I resisted asking these)

I'm just a businessman, claiming my legal rights, no more
I feel that I am really a genius to speak the land law in Taiwanese.

Still have to move, just delayed, don't be so urgent and this time really brought out my belligerent nature XDDDD

 The psychologist has said several times that I am belligerent, but I have been denying it all the time, but I don't really understand it, but this time I feel it.

Xiaoyu's "normal energy release" is an "abnormal and dangerous" existence in the eyes of others

Your concern often stems from your anxiety and my depression is often for no reason

It is a pity that most people have difficulty distinguishing and are responsible for their own emotions. The patient himself becomes the perfect person to be blamed "You have to be responsible for making yourself better!"

hmm ok 👌

This incident became the starting point for my depression to aggravate and relapse. Until the completion of this rewritten article, I was still struggling with the ups and downs of symptoms. I can understand that no one wants their house to become a haunted house. The ignorance of everyone running to commit suicide" doesn't mean that I can really forgive the previous landlord's behavior. There are too many landlords who only know how to rent out the house and don't know their legal rights and obligations.


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