Gender Relationships | Sweet Talk

Every time I meet my friend Yahui for dinner, she spends most of her time using her mobile phone to communicate with employees about work, and occasionally chats with us a couple of times, which is a great favor to us.

Yahui and her friends founded a tutoring center many years ago. They went through many difficult times and faced the impact of the epidemic in the past two years. However, thanks to her hard work, the tutoring center has not only run well, but now it has expanded to two branch.

Although Yahui is petite, she looks like a weak woman. But Nei Li is a very strong woman. She will do everything she wants to do. She can solve everything by herself, and even go to the hospital alone for surgery. In the early days of entrepreneurship, she slept less than two or three hours a day, and she carried it all over.

Because of her busy work, Yahui, who is in her thirties, has very little personal time, let alone falling in love. She has been single for three or four years. Although she has dated a few boys in the past few years, many of them are due to her busy work, women The strongman's personality flinched in fright.

She said that most boys have concerns about strong women and dare not and do not want to go further. She said that if she doesn't meet her favorite, she should be single for now. She can live well without a man or love.

But recently we met Yahui for dinner, and we found that although she was also very busy with work, she could be seen laughing happily as she slid and looked at her phone during part of the time. It felt like a little girl who was intoxicated in love.

I couldn't help but tentatively asked: I laughed so happily, is the other person special? Ya Hui showed the character of a strong woman, and did not intend to hide it from me, she responded directly: "Yeah, he is my foreign boyfriend." I was a little surprised when I heard it: "That foreign boyfriend you know? Does he work here? Where are you from?"

"British, a pilot with handsome blond hair and big eyes, we met on Facebook more than two months ago, he first added me as a friend, and then he chats with me every day, he has learned a lot, We often have endless things to talk about. After knowing each other for a month, he said that he likes me and appreciates me very much, and he hopes to interact with me. I thought that he would chat so well, and I was very happy, so I agreed to date him."

When I heard it, it felt wrong. Aren't these moves similar to the love package scam! I was worried that Yahui had been deceived, so I quickly asked, "Then did he say he wants to send you a package?"

"I think it's fast. We've been talking for two months. He should be ready to send me a package." Yahui said with a big smile. "Don't worry, I read so much news, I know this is a scam."

Of course the shrewd Yahui knew that this was a scam, so why continue to chat? At the beginning, Yahui also planned to block the other party directly, but she wanted to know from the news reports why so many highly intellectual women were defrauded, and she wanted to know what the other party had.

She said that the other party is full of weights, and men should learn more about how to coax women from them. These scammers should have taken love courses, right? The sweet words spoken can really touch the hearts of many lonely women. Can't blame so many lonely women for being fooled and believing everything the other party says.

"Their sweet words and coaxing skills can really make people fall into it, especially women love to hear them."

I said that I already knew their tricks, so why continue to chat?

"It's good for someone to coax me and talk to me sweetly. Don't worry. Now, when he wants to send a package, it's too late to block him. Let me enjoy the feeling of being held by others."

I hope that Yahui won't be coaxed into really falling into it!