What can't money buy? It's a philosophical question

Suddenly I saw a question today: Can't money buy _________?

This is really a philosophical question.

I have to admit that I am not a noble person. A while ago, there was a quarrel between 250,000 lives and 30,000 lives, and I also chose 250,000 in seconds. No matter what his troubles are, at least he can spend some money to make himself happy when he is sad, and it won't be too heartache if he wants to buy new clothes or go abroad.

I once had a friend who was very capable. Wearing a suit was also a talent, and there were many women who took the initiative to post. Basically a workaholic, he is the one who earns the most among the children in the family, so whenever parents have any needs, they will come to him first. Not only one friend will turn to him, and if the loaned money has not been recovered, you can buy a few TSMCs, right? ! Basically, his way of giving love to others is to meet the real needs of each other first, which is the most abundant thing in him. He also thinks that he has enough ability to support two families (don't rush to criticize first), but he feels that girls are hard enough. All just love his money.

I think people can only give their superfluous things . Friends also admit that if money can solve things, he will take out money without saying a word, but how can people’s hearts be so easy to solve? People's desires are not only about money. Money can only satisfy a small amount of money. Even if this small amount of money is charged to the highest level, it will be the same no matter how much it exceeds the threshold. (Or is it only me who thinks this way?) If you use money to tie a person or control your own employees, you are just using other people's survival as a knife to put a knife on him to force the other party to obey his own rules of the game, as long as the other party is determined not to play This set, money is useless. Money can only buy people's hearts for a moment, the short-term effect is very good, and it is even the least time-wasting practice.

Also, when you have the idea that "you can solve it with money", you will develop a mentality of not cherishing other people's things enough , and losing them if they are broken . Many times, what others care about is not the value of money, but the cherishing and protection of their own .

I have always felt that boys have more pressure to survive than girls. After all, this society teaches girls to find a stable job and marry a man with a good salary. The curve of boys is obvious. After leaving the society, economic ability seems to be more important than appearance. If he has appearance and ability, he will be robbed long ago. It's like giving a hint to the boys: having money seems to be the most important of all abilities.

But in fact, I think that if a person knows how to face the dark side of himself, understands himself, takes care of himself well, and assumes the responsibilities that he needs to face, his ability will not be much worse, then the abundance he has, money is just another part of it. one instead of the only one. What really needs to be practiced is knowing yourself and knowing how to give love, which is much more reliable and stable than having money. Two people working together to find a common goal is more meaningful than making money alone to support the family. Instead of relying on marriage to level up, it is better for women to stand on the same level and to be on the same level . Women who want what they earn are more attractive .

The giving of love comes in many forms: companionship, understanding, caring, guarding, or direct expression of love. …

This workaholic friend just lacks such love and dedication. It is understandable for him. After all, he has to devote himself to his work to achieve his current achievements. It's just that the other half of the workaholic, if he doesn't understand his way of giving, or doesn't understand him, I'm afraid there will be endless quarrels. If someone who understands him appears at this time, the most direct way he can express is that he wants to use money to keep the other party. Otherwise, he will not have enough time, not enough companionship, and will not be able to care for him in time. !

Maybe there's love in the middle?! But in the end, it's still only about money, so friends are very depressed, hurting themselves and hurting others.

What can't money buy? I don't think inner peace can be bought.

Because the inner black hole and desire cannot be satisfied with money, then you must know yourself for a long time, understand yourself, and confirm what you want? ! Once you find inner peace. The amount of money is just based on the life you want to fight for. I have seen those people who are rich and peaceful in their hearts. They may not live in big mansions and wear famous brands. The richness and happiness of life are all managed slowly. Cherish and give generously.

I hope this friend will one day find a way to find peace of mind. You can stop your busy steps, look at your life and everything related to yourself around you, redefine your desired life, and find passions other than work.

Is this conclusion a little weak? Some people laugh at me for being too ideal. But honestly, until I have the ability to achieve what my inner life looks like, I am a worldly person, who would think that I have less money?

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