偶爾占卜Oraria
偶爾占卜Oraria

你好,我是Aria,這是一個鐵齒麻瓜踏上學習如何當個入世女巫的路​的故事,覺得需要找塊地方紀錄個人三腳貓的世界觀見解,​偶爾老人碎念與不重要生活觀察。

[Popular Divination] 2021 I am great, 2022 is even better! those things that you should be sure of yourself

year-end review
There is no absolute right or wrong in life, and every moment we make decisions that we think are the best or are annoying at the time.
Looking back, it may be worthy of affirmation. Those choices, good or bad, will eventually lead us here.


Looking back on the whole year of 2021, what do you need to affirm yourself most?

Meditate on the past years and choose a deck:

Let's reveal the result~




▪︎A▪︎

Learn to let go, so that you can look back and see precious people and things

This year, you have lost something that you have always cherished and precious, mainly interpersonal. You have experienced a painful breakup, betrayed by a friend, or faced some situations where you have to give up your loved ones. It must be difficult and painful to accept at first, but it is often after we lose what is in front of us that we discover what we have been ignoring. If it weren't for this pain, maybe we would never have discovered the beautiful things that come to our lives now.

This group of friends should be sure that they have passed the task of dealing with loss and have discovered more dazzling treasures.

Maybe the cherished collection is accidentally damaged, and when calculating the loss, you find that you have spent too much on the collection, and then reflect on whether there are other knife-edges that should be spent more;
Maybe because we lost our relationship, let us put more time on ourselves and start to know how to love ourselves first;
Maybe because of quarreling with family members and moving out to live, instead learn to deal with a lot of life and become very independent;
It may be because of the loss of health that finding those goals in life that you want to execute immediately makes you no longer procrastinate.

You must be sure that you have changed your mind, let go, and sublimated the pain of loss like this, and gained a new understanding. And friends who haven't reached this stage don't need to be too nervous, I believe you are also on the way to let go. The next task in 2022 is to find new people and things that make you feel emotional, to enjoy the establishment of new relationships and interactions, and to experience a new stage of life.

As long as you are willing to open your hands, new things will naturally come into life.




▪︎B▪︎

Condition in the face of adversity without extending losses

This group of friends is very likely to be a group ready to start a business, or there are projects or events (such as weddings) in preparation, but they are disrupted by the epidemic or other factors. , the environment is not according to people's wishes, it is really a bit disgusting. So faced with the difficulty of continuing to do it, or pausing and waiting for an opportunity.

You have to make sure that you know how to stop first, minimize the damage, and wait for a good opportunity. You must know that not everyone can bear it, and can judge whether the situation can be bent or extended. It is even more important to be sure that you have done everything you can, that the problem is not your own, that is, as long as the time allows, the project can start to operate immediately, and you can master all the parts that you can master yourself. Isn’t this amazing? Although the waiting must be very tormented, and the suspension must be a loss, but if you act rashly at that time, there is a high probability that you will only suffer more.

In 2022, you are a group that is ready to go. During the previous period of waiting for the shot, you have not been idle, but have been ensuring that the plan is not out of touch with the current situation. Opportunities are given to you who are ready. Next, as long as Timing is right, once the surrounding unfavorable factors disappear, you can move with all your strength at any time like a tiger, and open up a new situation in full swing. Basically, you are a group with entrepreneurial characteristics. You are willing to learn if you dare to do it, and you will get some results without working hard for too long!




▪︎C▪︎

Diving to breed good ideas, full of energy and then set off

This group of friends seems to have nothing to do in 2021, because this year is a year for you to slow down, take a good rest, recharge, and dive. In the chaotic and troubled times, keep your original intention, recharge your batteries, explore your own ideas, and plan your future carefully.

You feel more introverted and have a lot of inner activities. You are the type that thinks a lot or even thinks too much before taking action. However, because of spending time and thinking carefully, I finally concluded an idea or a new life goal that I feel very satisfied with.

You must be sure that you will not waste your energy arbitrarily, and know that rest is to take a longer road. Although there may be situations where you are considered to think more and do less, but you belong to the idea, and you need 99% or even 100% to accept it. , will be willing to implement the person. High moral standards and perfectionism really often make others incomprehensible.

The next task in 2022 is not unexpectedly implementation. What should be faced is still to be faced. Hurry up and make a table of good dishes that you planned and present it in front of everyone. To remind you that it is really too easy to procrastinate by demanding perfection, and to be a bit withdrawn and closed-door. Sometimes, no matter how perfect you think, it is all personal opinion. The earlier you implement exposure measurement and wind direction measurement, and listen to everyone's opinions, you can respond to possible changes earlier. Learning to roll the correction in stages will save you a lot of time in the early stage.




▪︎D▪︎

Bravely break free from social shackles and explore new possibilities in life

In 2021, you have a great reflection on your life, and you have realized what you don’t want, so you began to actively get rid of it, and made a lot of efforts to try all kinds of new possibilities, and you don’t want to let yourself get stuck in place.

It is necessary to affirm your own courage and self-awareness. Not everyone can discover and admit that they are unhappy, and dare to abandon what is in front of them and pursue the passion in life instead.

It is very likely that you have left your tired work, environment, and relationships in order to bravely pursue a new self. Decided to do a lot of trying to explore, looking for some new interests, new life possibilities. This group of people is likely to be suitable for art and design related fields, or other creative work. Because of these various attempts and the exchange of ideas with others, your inspiration will flow again, and you will feel that life is running again, and you can get hapiness.

At the beginning of 2022, you may need to continue to find your life direction. Don't be afraid to take your time. Now you need to experience new things with all your strength to feel that you are alive. We need to remind this group of friends that enthusiasm is sometimes achieved after getting started, so it needs to be explored more deeply than expected. It is easy to be shaken by the judgment of whether it is good or not based on too preliminary feelings. After all, many things are interesting. , if you go deeper, you may start to get a little setback. When you get frustrated, you start to doubt and cool down, and then you get anxious and start looking for other directions.

You are too afraid to go back to a life without passion, and you can't help but get impatient. Being depressed for so long makes you just want to get out of the current situation, cut off retraining, and let go of what you have accumulated before. It is suggested here that you can think about whether the original expertise is slightly changed, and it will be very different? For example, if you don’t want to be a chef anymore, it may be that the restaurant management system is too bad and you are tired. It’s not that you really don’t love cooking. If you open a YT channel to share your cooking, maybe you will find it very interesting. Look at how the previous experience can be applied from some different angles, maybe the flame of enthusiasm will be ignited again!





Due to the epidemic in 2021, everyone is more or less forced to experience some different lifestyles than before.
Faced with a helpless situation, it was very difficult and at a loss, but we all survived.

Give yourself some encouragement!
I am great! I made it through! I can!
New Year's Eve with full of positive energy, nothing is impossible in 2022🎆


I am Aria,
See you next year when I occasionally fortune-telling~



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