After reading | "But I Don't Like It"

(I have written an article before, and I have a feeling for the position of mother, which is derived from the "rebellious period" in this book. Mother's occupation )

Recently I read a book called "But I Hately Don't Like It" . The author of this book is Wu Xiaole , who is also the author of the TV series "Your Children Are Not Your Children" . I read this book because of a recommendation from an author, so I went online and bought it, and it didn't disappoint.

Most of what is written in the book is about women's issues, especially some unchangeable fate, which is a very serious topic for women.

I like her words and word selection very much, and they are quite in-depth, and even some words or idioms may not be seen in the books I usually read. The book often uses some metaphors to express certain things, and it is a book that needs to be carefully thought about. I personally think it's a very deep book, which I really like.

One of them, "The Rebellion Period" , was the one that moved me the most in the whole book. Even after reading it, this is the one I feel the most, and the next one is "Fetish" . Maybe they also have pets. In addition, one of the cats in the family left last year. The plot in the book is natural Can feel the same.

"Rebellious period" is written in the helplessness and hard work of a mother. I like a passage in it. She said: "Mothers often don't get enough breath. When they want to relax and take a breath, the words and instructions of others immediately catch up, persuading mothers to take their children and walk a little further." The words touched me very much. Can a mother not take care of her children in her own way? And other people have to meddle in the business?

Being a mother is already a very stressful profession, but I have to endure criticism and advice from others. Sometimes I think about it, "mother" is really a heavy name.

After reading this article, I shed a lot of tears.

I like the way the book is narrated and uses a lot of adjectives, which I lack, but she writes the words and sentences appropriately, uses them deeply, and is in place. He directly said the words that some women buried deep in their hearts.

I especially liked her poignant words when she described the pain when her period came.

As if the spine was pulled out of it, some organs did not have enough support and then sank, compressing your lower abdomen, all the muscles in the body were overstressed to cope with this displacement, and there was an annoying soreness from time to time. Even his head hurt unreasonably.

This passage makes men who see it in their eyes, maybe more deeply feel this deep pain, not just hear the stomachache from the girl. It was a pain with pictures.

This book gave me another layer of experience in the narrative of words. Sometimes we listen to others talking about their own feelings, we can only use our imagination, but Wu Xiaole 's words are so that you can understand what she wants to express by seeing the words. what kind of pain.

I think this is the author's strength, and it's what I admire most. I encourage men to read this book, and I encourage women to read this book. She has exhausted some taboos, grievances and feelings of helplessness as a woman. But it also shows that a woman can still strive to become a superior person. Even a fat dog is a fat dog that everyone admires, and is no longer the one with a low self-image. It is no longer the fat dog that those patriarchal people contempt for.

The meaning of fat dog is very simple: pigs are not fat, but dogs are fat. It means that girls are more successful than boys.

Today’s society has been changing. Even if patriarchy still exists, it has gradually decreased. Modern women know how to speak for themselves; they know how to fight for themselves. I believe that in the future society, more and more people will see the difference between men and women. Equality, I believe everyone is happy to see it!

The experience was written on 110/9/12.