"Those Dreams Taught Me" 01 - Sleeping in bed

Background information

• Time to wake up: 2021/06/06 08:00 AM (Sunday)
• Dream Date: 2021/06/06 (Sunday)
• Sleep time: about 6 hours
• Bedtime cues: none
• Wake up mood: 🥲
• Physical condition: sleeps late
• Alarm setting: none
• dream's genre: family dreams

Dreams

I dreamed that I was sleeping in the second master bedroom of my grandmother’s house (Kaohsiung). In the morning, everyone went downstairs to go to the restaurant. I was the only one who was lying in bed wearing sleepy clothes. bed.

The first time I woke up, I found that the mask on my hand was full of holes, and I borrowed a mask from my grandmother (Note 1). As soon as my grandmother left, I fell back to sleep.

The second time I woke up, I told my grandmother that you should go down to meet everyone, I will definitely go down after waiting, and then fell back to sleep (Note 2)

The third time I woke up, the restaurant called me, saying that my bean curd rolls were served, come and eat, and I struggled to get up again (Note 3).

Edited by:

1. In the dream, the pneumonia epidemic had already occurred, but my grandmother passed away 10 years ago, but in the dream, I realized that she was resurrected for some reasonable reason, so I didn't realize that it was a dream.
2. Individuals dozing off, staying in bed and hard to wake up on their own, like the first meeting after a lunch break, or like Ellen entering a lazy cabin while unconscious inside a giant, ignoring Armin’s calls to knock on the window
3. Tofu skin roll is my favorite port spot. My parents usually wake me up and keep me out of bed by having a delicious breakfast (sesame cake, chicken rice), but I was deceived by this trick several times when I was a child

Interpretation of Dreams

"Morning stress" was actually the biggest struggle at my grandmother's house in childhood, because it was an invisible competition + coping among cousins.

1. When you stay in bed, your parents will lie to you that all the other cousins and sisters are up, and you are the last one who has not woken up (sometimes they lie to you), and you will feel a lot of pressure.
2. The last one to get up means that the delicious breakfast may be eaten by those who have already got up (usually my brother), so the motivation to get up early is -1
3. When you spend the night at a relative's house, the morning is actually a difficult time. You have to say hello, chat, let others see your gloomy appearance in the morning, or pretend to be very energetic. In fact, it is very tiring to deal with it early in the morning.

Idea Implantation-Inception

Both my grandfather and grandmother had appeared in my dreams "in the form of resurrection", and there would be a reasonable reason for the resurrection so that I could not discern that it was a dream.

When my grandmother passed away, Facebook was not yet popular, and it was difficult to recall her shadow in the daily digital community. Often, I had to go back to my old home to see old photos. Perhaps, dreaming is a way for me to remember her.

Although I didn't particularly cherish the opportunity to talk to her in my dream, I stayed in bed as always. But perhaps it is this ordinary daily interaction that is more real.