The world doesn't revolve around us

The world doesn't revolve around us. Although I clearly know this, sometimes it is inevitable that I will be used to being myself as the center, and I will put myself first in everything I do. Isn't this a matter of course? In our world, you are the protagonist. We only know what we think and feel, and only focus on personal likes and dislikes. Others are foils, and they are all "serving" roles for the protagonist.

From birth, we are held in the palm of our family. Everything depends on our preferences. Over time, we mistakenly think that the world revolves around us. The actions of family members have always contributed to this idea.

It was not until we grew up, stumbled and blamed others, and criticized for being indecent, that we realized that we were just a small screw. We were working hard to advance the operation of the world, but we were never the protagonists. However, all living beings should be equal, no one is more important than the other, if we are not the protagonist, who is the protagonist?

In a movie, whoever has more roles is the protagonist, but in life, everyone has the same amount of time. How to allocate "plays"? In the office, is the supervisor necessarily the protagonist? In the area of cleaning the bathroom, the supervisor must have no role in it. In a convenience store, is the clerk or the customer the protagonist? In war, the protagonists at the negotiating table are officials, but the protagonists on the battlefield are the soldiers and civilians in disaster.

In the process of growing up, getting married and having children, we are the protagonists at every moment. Having children makes us feel that life is complete, but from another perspective, in the eyes of children, we only exist as parents, and they are the protagonists. The cycle of life makes us understand that the whole world is basically a group play, everyone is playing a different role, we are both the protagonist and the supporting role.

Since it is a group show, the world will of course not revolve around us, so instead of expecting the world to match our pace and desires, it is better to try to match the pace of the world and find a position that suits us to stand firm.

No matter whether he is the protagonist, supporting role, or guest star, in short, make the best of your life, don't think too much of yourself, don't belittle yourself, believe in yourself, and make our energy stronger.

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