I want to tell you, work hard to be the person you like

On the last day of 2021, I just want to tell you .

Lately, I like watching works that tell my heart. There is no need to have a huge narrative, some daily conversations, withdrawal and courage in secret love, growing pains, many experiences and thoughts that I do not have, and experience the difference between others and me in various works.

I remember when it was broadcast, many people were watching it on the Internet. At that time, I was not interested in the stories that I told. When I was a child, I was thinking that there is something I can't say, and it doesn't make sense to drag it around.

At that time, my actions and thoughts were all based on "I", and it was also the way of thinking of many people.

"What do I think?" The stronger the character, the smoother the life. People can always solve things in a direct and effective way, so they are always easy to be vulnerable to others and avoid resentment.

Living in a society with simplistic values is more likely to have this tendency , which is also a way of expressing Mu Qiang.

Growing up, meeting all kinds of people and ideas changed my way of thinking. Learn to empathize and not arrogantly define other people's experiences and feelings.

Maybe I can't write very delicate works now, because my thinking is still direct, but I want to learn to experience every subtle feeling and cherish every emotion of human beings. I want to be a person who is tolerant and doesn't hurt others by being reckless. I learned that the kind of people I like and the kind of people I hope to attract, I have to become such a person first .

When I was a child, when I was chatting with an older brother, he said to me, "Why? Why do you think you are worthy of others' liking?"

A person who does not want to be tolerant of others, why does he long for the tolerance of others.

Shuangzi is a completely different person from me. Her appearance and personality make it more difficult for her to become an "ordinary person". She is strong, hard-working, kind, and keeps trying before she can meet Feng Zao and develop a person who makes people look good. Heartwarming story.

When I was reading the comments, I saw someone saying that I really wanted to tell you, "I really want to kill you", I didn't mean it, I always flinched, I never dared to find the answer, but it made the situation even worse, Shuangzi would think so much, no Is it because she is a kind person?

Afraid of disturbing others, afraid of hurting others, and taking all the trouble on myself, because she is such a kind person, she will meet such a good friend and really like her, not for other reasons.

Growing romance is all about learning a small thing, dealing with a small relationship. Growth is not the study of success, and there is no way to spread theories out there to become a way for everyone to grow, just like not everyone who reads the study of success can succeed.

Have we forgotten to pay attention to the small stories around us in the narrative of the big society, and have only been trying to become a huge success depicted in the distance, and then use this kind of thinking to enter the world of others?

I used to be like this before, maybe I was too tired and unable to think from the perspective of practical interests, so I can also understand the difficulty of Shuangzi, I like Fengzao's shyness, and their smiles, which are triggered by a sentence, and their tears. , is moved by a move.

Ordinary and simple, is the true meaning of life in my opinion. Everything else should be done to protect it.

Whether it’s animation or text, each work will show the author’s personality and values, which cannot be hidden; the reader’s values and personality also affect how they view the work.

What is the meaning of writing and creation to everyone? Is there an intuitive indicator of the value of words? I don't think there is.

There are too many works that I don’t like. Overconfident expressions, offensive and uninformative language, disrespectful words, and discriminatory narratives, how many works can I like? But many of them are very popular.

Every work has hidden reasons for its popularity, cultural, historical, commercial... Just like I hate most of the human beings, the hateful people write the hateful works that are probably multiples.

Recently I saw a very reasonable saying, which is probably like this: There are too many things that are wrong and unwilling, and human beings do not have the energy to resist all the aversions, and can only choose.

So I choose what I can accept, reject what I don't want, respect other people's world, and then hope that the world can be a little better.

There is a theory that if there is one person in the world who can change the collective subconscious of humanity, then most of humanity will change with it.

A word can become a trend, and a technology developed by one person can change human life.

Whether you and I are like that or not, we can all trust that we can create the atmosphere in our lives that we love.

On the last day of 2021, I understand that I am different from myself before, and I still choose the works I like to see, I want to make my words more gentle, and see more people's stories, not from the perspective of "me". but from their point of view.

What I want to tell you is probably:

Nothing is more important than happiness. If I don’t want to feel that the world is my enemy, I must not be my enemy.

I wish you all a healthy and happy new year.