I just want to make choices where I can decide the outcome

"The day I regret this choice will not come."

There are countless choices in our life, there are many things we can't decide, all we can do is accept them. We have already made too many choices of this kind, and we have already made choices that determine the outcome. It is this kind of choice that gives people a sense of powerlessness in life. That’s it, the choice is over, no, the choice is the real beginning. .

When you enter high school, press, just this one, and then start a full high school education. After choosing a university, press, that's about it, I will study this field in the past four years, and I should use it in my future life. Even the life after graduation has been decided for a few years. This concept is constantly embedded in our education, do we really want to educate the next generation in this way?

It is up to us to decide what high school, university and job can give us. Choosing this job does not mean that I can only work in this field. Just because I choose this position does not mean that my promotion can only depend on the company. The job of promotion is even weirder. My impression is that the person who needs to accumulate seniority is the squad leader I met when I was in the army. I understand that some things really require experience (like soldiers or teachers), but with so many airborne supervisors now, does experience really look like this?

If we think the outcome ends when we choose, then it does. This type of thinking is called "fixed thinking." Conversely, the belief that outcomes begin after selection is called a "growth mindset." There are too many movies about these two kinds of thinking, but it is difficult for us to find the difference between these two kinds of thinking in our life. The example I gave today is one of the manifestations of these two kinds of thinking in life.

I know that most of the people who will read my articles are also creators, and I want to tell you that this is the reason why I invested in meeting you here. I don’t regret choosing to be a creator, because the result of this choice is still It didn't come, and the result of this choice was created by us. Why did you choose to be a writer?