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Noon Essay "We Are Family"

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Have you ever wondered how nice it would be if you were an only child? When you are the only child in the family, will you complain that it would be great if I had brothers and sisters to share with me?
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Have you ever wondered or wondered who your parents or siblings were in past lives? What kind of love, hatred and hatred did you have before that made you family members, brothers and sisters. I did think about this question, but it's a difficult problem that won't have an answer. Are you emotionally in love with your siblings? If you are an only child, have you ever envied a friend who has siblings? I believe you will often hear your parents say: You have to love each other!

As a child, I used to wish I was an only child so that my parents would give me all the attention. In my childhood memory, I remember when my mother told me that I would have a brother for me, my first reaction was to be very angry, very jealous, and even told my mother that if you gave birth, I would definitely throw him in garbage can. I still remember when my dad took me to the hospital to visit my younger brother who had just arrived in the world, I glared at him and didn't give him a good look, haha.

I only have one younger brother, and our parents have a pair of (female) characters. My brother and I are four years apart in age, but when we were young, we were noisy, grabbing toys, and pulling our hair. But the strange thing is that whenever I see a child bullying my brother, I feel very sad. Sometimes when I see him crying, I also secretly cry, maybe this is the so-called blood connection .

I am a girl who yearns for the warmth of a family . Due to the influence of my original family, my parents used to be noisy for living expenses when I was a child. This also made me very envious of a family with a harmonious family. I have seen many real families. Brothers are fighting over their parents' property. The attitude towards parents is also very different from one to the next, so I hope that one day my parents will distribute more property to myself. To me it was all "purposeful filial piety" until I met my lover's family and my relationship with my siblings changed forever. Between them, I can feel the warmth of the family and the sincerity of treating each other regardless of return. Just because of the words my lover often talks about: because we are a family.

My lover is from a well-off family, and the family will not be rich, but the relationship between their siblings is something I must appreciate. The three brothers and sisters will have discussions and cooperation in matters large and small between their parents. I believe it is not surprising to receive news that family and friends have been diagnosed during this epidemic. From the panic at the beginning to the calm face now, it is not new news, but it seems that the undiagnosed ones are strange. For several months, my wife and I unfortunately also got the diagnosis due to work. Fortunately, his sister who works in other places has to go back to her hometown WORK FROM HOME to help take care of him because of the epidemic.

His sister takes care of his three meals a day. In addition to the main meal, there are also desserts, fruits and so on. His sister didn't forget to set the plate! I also laughed and said it was really like a meal in a private hospital! What impressed me was that at that time, I was also diagnosed and couldn't buy nutritional supplements for my lover, nor could I take care of him, so I could only ask his sister to buy all vitamins for me, and I told her it was really hard these days. She is also thanks to her at home, otherwise how could my lover's elderly parents have the energy to "SERVE" him. I remember when his sister responded: " It's a small matter, because we are a family, we don't care." This sentence doesn't sound special, but it really warms my heart. And during my quarantine at home, my brother helped me prepare my diet because my mother's feet were inconvenient.

A few days ago, my lover's father also confirmed it, and my sister also fell ill because she was tired from taking care of her father. Today I feel a little helpless because I heard that my lover's mother and sister were unfortunately diagnosed this morning. Worry about them is inevitable. At this time, my lover must take the responsibility of taking care of the family. 1 VS 3. He also asked his boss for a week's vacation without saying a word. First, we must have a sense of responsibility. After all, our family members are diagnosed and we are close contacts . To avoid spreading the virus to colleagues, he has to take care of his family's diet during this period until they are fully recovered. This is the "power of love" of family members who will not worry about whether they will be infected or not, but also do their duty to take good care of them. So I hope the lover has enough immunity and physical strength to handle all this. Of course, I also very much hope that his family will recover quickly and be safe and healthy.

At this time, I really realized how happy it is to have siblings. When my parents left us, I still had siblings to accompany us, and we could rely on each other and take care of each other . What made me realize the most is that when my father left suddenly, he left as soon as he said it, how dashing it was! What happened behind the father was the younger brother who held back the man's tears and dealt with it. Now he must also take up the responsibility of taking care of his family and take over his father's funeral business. I understand that he is very difficult, and it is really good to have him. If it were me alone, I would definitely be in a hurry and have no ability to deal with it.

This reminds me that if we are an only child, when something like this happens, or when our parents get sick, etc., we have to take care of everything ourselves, have a job to take care of, our family, parents, etc., then What would it be like? I don't have the courage to imagine. Not everyone can handle this kind of pressure. I'm so glad that we have siblings, and despite occasional disagreements, quarrels, etc., our love for each other will only increase and never decrease. Especially when I get older, I realize that the most inseparable thing I can do without is my family. Isn't it very happy to have siblings to accompany us to discuss everything and face it together?

If you have siblings, congratulations, you are lucky

If you are an only child, I believe God has other plans

WE ARE SIBLINGS, WE CARE, WE LOVE

WE ARE FAMILY!!!
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