每週3-2-1，正確的路徑+足夠的時間+多種角度

原文連結:https://jamesclear.com/3-2-1/january-6-2022?rh_ref=ebaff8bc

3 Ideas From Me

I.
"It doesn’t matter if you’re a beginner or an expert as long as you’re on the path.
If a beginner is on the path, all they need is time.
If an expert is off the path, they won’t be an expert for long."

重點不是你是否為專家或是菜雞，而是你是否有在成為專家的路徑上。如果路徑對，菜雞肯花時間就能變成專家；若專家偏離路徑，則其頭銜必將逐漸黯淡。

剛開始，所有人都是菜雞，誰能找到正確的路徑並持續在那條路上走，才是重點! 若能一開始就鑑別出那個正確路徑，只能說成功50%，剩下的50%還是需要持續耕耘。 問題在於，怎麼辨識那條路徑是正確的？套句Steve Jobs的話

"Follow your hear" ❤❤❤❤❤

或者是我常聽的Podcaster講的，

"Trust your gut feeling!!"

​II.
"Good advice at the wrong time is bad advice.
Life is full of seasons and each season has different requirements.
Know what season you are in, and you can better identify which ideas to utilize."

好的建議在錯誤的時間提出，也會變成壞建議! 這個我相當有體會，有時候聽到別人抱怨的時候，如果你有好的建議，在當下提出來，可能就會被認為是"你不懂我!"而把你的"好建議"甩一邊。

感知所處環境的氣氛，見人說人話，見鬼說鬼話!

III.
"The longer you're a teacher, the less you remember what it is like to be a student.
The longer you're a doctor, the less you remember what it is like to be a patient.
The longer you're a coach, the less you remember what it is like to be a player.
Change positions. A new perspective can improve your old methods."

​當處於一個角色中太久時，就會忘記另外一個角色的心境，要隨時轉換角色 cosplay一下，用不同角色的扮演來看同樣的事物，或許就能得到新的啟發。

當父親太久，就忘了自己曾是小孩的時候也做過蠢事、問過蠢問題、花很多時間玩遊戲。的確，任何人都曾經年輕過，人的一生也有多重角色，但往往演久了就入戲了! 警惕!!💥

2 Quotes From Others

I.
Prolific writer Joyce Carol Oates on motivation following action:

"One must be pitiless about this matter of "mood." In a sense, the writing will create the mood. ... I have forced myself to begin writing when I've been utterly exhausted, when I've felt my soul as thin as a playing card, when nothing has seemed worth enduring for another five minutes ... and somehow the activity of writing changes everything."

Source: The Paris Review

不是很懂這個quote，寫作的時候應該​忽視心情?! 這個意思是挖空+放空，透過寫作，來改變這一切？!

​II.
Writer David Chapman on how to improve your thinking:

"Learn from fields very different from your own. They each have ways of thinking that can be useful at surprising times. Just learning to think like an anthropologist, a psychologist, and a philosopher will beneficially stretch your mind."

Source: How to Think Real Good​

​增進思考的方法，就是學習不同於你所擁有領域的東西。學工程的，學學商、心理、哲學，或許就可以有不同的激盪。

1 Question For You

Habits need to be revised from time to time.

Which habits do you need to double down on this year? Which habits are no longer serving you and need to be replaced this year?

習慣需要時不時的檢視，當習慣無法對你有好處時，應盡快更換!

話是這樣說沒錯，但是習慣就像是藏在書本裡的便條紙，當你沒翻到他的時候，你肯定忘了他。所以時不時的自省檢視，別讓大腦全處於自動導航模式(也就是做了一堆事，卻想不起來做過甚麼!)。