356. Stop FOMO, you will only be more FOMO
Why FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)?
The more we worry about missing something, the more time you spend worrying about missing out on real life
The more we swipe our phones, the more we envy others
Watching more limited-time updates won't allow you to actually participate, open that door and go out!
Don't waste your attention on these things, behind the perfect photo, is net beauty actually life so happy?
Don't be afraid to miss out because you'll just miss out more
We're not perfect, if you want to be perfect, you can't push anything , it's just stressing you out
But school education always tells us that failure is a bad thing, and failing to pass is stupid. This black-and-white standard closes our minds and prevents us from experiencing the crazy world . How many people are overwhelmed by heavy books
The teacher will not tell you examples of failure, he will only tell you the achievements of famous people, how many waiters make a Hollywood movie star?
No inventor succeeds in one step, all innovators climb up by stepping on their own failures and using these experiences as stepping stones
It takes constant action (trying) to increase the chance of success. Perfection is so desirable because it cannot be achieved. If you want to draw the most beautiful picture, you must not be able to draw it, because you will pick west
The definition of good enough is that you have given it all, and every good enough will make you better
Why we don't like action (output) because of fear
Why are we afraid? Because we are afraid that we are not good enough
Why are we afraid that we are not good enough? Because we care about what others see
Why do we care what others think? Because we like to seek approval from others
Why do we like to seek approval from others? Because we want to be valuable
Only ourselves can affirm our own worth. We live for ourselves, not according to the expectations of others.
Don't be afraid anymore, you are who you are
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