[Jin Yong・The Condor Heroes] Guo Fu made a mistake, should Huang Rong and Guo Jing be responsible?

Guo Fu is the daughter of Guo Jing and Huang Rong. She made two extremely serious mistakes. One was to chop off Yang Guo's arm, and the other was to accidentally injure Xiao Longnv with a poison needle, leaving Xiao Longnv's life hanging by a thread. After Guo Fu cut off Yang Guo's arm, Huang Rong thought, "Fur cut off his arm, and he and my Guo family have forged a deep hatred." Huang Rong's idea was that the victim would avenge the perpetrator's family; , Huang Rong learned that Yang Guo was in contact with Guo Xiang, but still thought that Yang Guo would "resent the Guo family's full family", and once again associated Guo Fu's mistakes with the Guo family's family.

There is another person who thinks that his family is also responsible. This person appeared in the story of Shendiao. She kills people like numbness. When the enemy dies, she kills his family to vent her anger. This person is Li Mochou. Lu Zhanyuan was already dead, so she put all her grievances on Lu Zhanyuan's younger brother Lu Liding's family, and wanted to kill the Lu Liding family. In the end, only Cheng Ying and Lu Wushuang survived. If Lu Zhanyuan had no family, she might have dug up Lu Zhanyuan's body and whipped it like Wu Zixu did.

Having said that, Guo Fu made a big mistake, should Huang Rong and Guo Jing be held responsible? If one thinks that "one person does things and one person is responsible", then the only person who needs to be punished is Guo Fu. Huang Rong and Guo Jing can only say that they can't teach, but they don't need to be punished for this. On the other hand, those who believe that "one person commits a crime and the family is to blame" will blame both Huang Rong and Guo Jing, thinking that they should also be punished together. I thought that "seating together" was an idea thousands of years ago, but I didn't expect it to be seen in modern society.

Eight years ago, in 2013, Suzuki Momoe, who was then the director of the councillor's office, received a request for help. The requester said that a neighbor had leaked water into his house, and the management committee ignored her and said she was insane. The reason for saying she was insane was nothing but her son's murder and suicide. She is a "family member of the perpetrator" and feels guilty about the victim (just like Huang Rong did to Yang Guo's Xiaolongnu), and she is also called a "neuropathy". Her son has killed people, and she has become a lunatic*. I really don't understand that the family members committed crimes, does it mean that the family members also have problems? If this logic holds true, it means that the "family members of the perpetrators" are not qualified to talk about human rights. In a society under the rule of law that advocates "one person does things and one person is responsible", this idea is a terrible thing.

Think about it again, how much responsibility does the family have to bear if a person commits a crime? Some people think that if the family takes care of the perpetrator in time, bad things may be prevented. That is to say, if Huang Rong and Guo Jing had cared more about Guo Fu, Yang Guo might not have his arm cut off. But if the parents themselves can't teach, and don't know how to communicate with their children, is it just the family's problem? Or is it already a "social problem"? If it is a social problem, it is not just the perpetrators and their families who need to reflect. Different people in the society should think together how to prevent more tragedies from happening. Instead of blaming the family for the problem, it is better to think about how to support the family.

Source:https://www.storm.mg/article/2984994?mode=whole