Does this era have to be tough and showy in order to be seen? Zhou Shen proves that introverted gentleness can also have powerful power "Part 1"

Do you like listening to pop music?

I have been writing business articles on the workplace and career consulting for a long time. I know that I am good at planning and structuring things, transforming a set of theories into simple and easy-to-understand methods, teaching others, or helping others solve problems.

But in fact, for someone like me who has a soft spot for psychology , "people" is the landscape I care about most.

What kind of personality does a person have, what kind of cognition he has about the events that happen to him, what kind of behavior he has made, what kind of life he has created... This series of thinking is not only applicable to career counseling, but also applies to career counseling. Among them, the rules with higher winning rate, applied in the business or in life, can indeed help you have more direction and confidence in the channel of life.

This habit continues into my daily life. Even if I like a singer (if I like it enough), I not only listen to his songs, but to understand this person, I will watch all the programs and exclusive interviews he has been on, and thoroughly observe and study this person. To put it bluntly, there is no serious reason, it is pure curiosity about the human beings that he likes.

In recent consultations, I often encounter cases where clients feel that they are more introverted, not social, or not good at expressing themselves, and they are afraid that they will not be able to do a certain job well.

When it comes to the keyword "introversion", I have to mention the singer I admire the most - Zhou Shen .

I have always liked Zhou Shen very much.

It just so happened that he started recording a variety show again. It might be interesting to take a look at his career development.

Is "introversion" really a personality that is more unfavorable for work development?

Look at Zhou Shen, who is precisely the representative of introverts' successful counterattack in the Chinese music scene. At the beginning, he was not only an introvert. At the beginning, his appearance, voice, body, lack of self-confidence and withdrawn personality were all in line with the mainstream aesthetics of the pop music world. Although his singing was really good, I believe that no one thought he had a popular reputation at the time. conditions of.

I still remember the first time I noticed him on the "Singer" show last year. In fact, I was watching Hua Chenyu at the time, and I felt that the singer sang live and his stage performance was super explosive.

However, over time, I found that in the background, every time the director wants to announce the ranking or something, there is a person with a peculiar expression that catches the eye. Singer competition is always filled with an atmosphere of wanting to win and seeking performance. Everyone is comparing their aura and who is in the center, but why is there such a person? Every time people praise him, he is very embarrassed and shows his face. Embarrassed look? Do you always sit in the far corner and let others (especially female singers) sit in the middle? Everyone wants to get a high ranking, why doesn't he seem to have a high determination to win? Just want to sing?

What's even more amazing is that he looks very introverted, but he responds very quickly when he picks up the words, and the stalks are also thrown in strings. He is really interesting. Is this... the staff? Or... a very unpopular newcomer?

Until I saw him stand on the stage, what kind of two-dimensional divine song "Darabong" , the ancient style "Lovesickness" , and the combination of pop and bel canto "Dania" , the dark and paradoxical super difficult song "Press Yourself" Listen to the doorbell by yourself" , each song has a very different style, and almost every performance is ranked in the top three, directly threatening the king Hua Chenyu. God, what's up with this terrifyingly good voice and powerful musical expression?

I've always been interested in people with great contrasts, strong abilities, or interesting personalities. After I started to follow Zhou Shen, in addition to his good voice that made the ears pregnant, I also found that this person is worth learning. It is really not ordinary:

1. Accumulated focus and patience:

It was mentioned earlier that Zhou Shen did not conform to the mainstream aesthetics. His starting point was not higher than others at all. He was dormant and waiting for six or seven years before becoming popular. He could not see the anxiety of the future, and it did not make him give up and change careers. I still stick to my love of singing, and I continue to hone myself while waiting for opportunities. When you have an opportunity, take advantage of it and do your best on the stage. His goal is very simple: "Stay on stage and sing all the time" . For this original purpose, he cherishes every opportunity to appear on stage, no matter how big or small. Until now, no matter how mature and popular he is, he has always been in awe of the stage. constant.

2. The craftsman spirit of striving for perfection and pursuing the ultimate:

Zhou Shen's image was lyrical, quiet and ancient. But as long as you hear it all the way to the present, you know that he has almost no genres that he has never tried (not to mention bel canto, opera, and multiple languages, even rock, electronic music, and rap). Every time, I always have the courage to break through my comfort zone and challenge singing and tunes that are not my own. The continuous evolution visible to the naked eye can be clearly felt in each of his stage performances. What's more terrifying is that you think that he should not be able to control a certain style. In fact, every time he gives you unexpected, surprising and exclusive Zhou Shen style unique and wonderful. It's the kind of feeling that makes me yell "Wow!!!~~ That's scary!!!" . Really only we can't think of it, it can't be done without him. I admire this kind of attitude that is already extremely talented, but still keeps improving and exerts his professionalism to the extreme.

3. Adhere to simplicity and kindness in the world of competition and competition:

In such a competitive acting world in mainland China, his humility, not occupying the C position, and his temperament to always talk to others and take care of others impressed me deeply. I remember when recording "Singer", because of the epidemic, the singers were either showing off their luxurious residences or looking for a performance hall with good equipment and sound. Only this big baby, Zhou Shen, actually set up equipment to record songs in a dormitory as simple as a college student, and didn't mind revealing the simple side. I also saw someone making him poor, but he didn't seem to care. I think, as long as the inside is stable enough, I don't mind this kind of external gorgeousness or not. Well, they are playing at home, and they are still in the top three. 😉

Next episode to be continued~~~

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