My new idol: must be strong for my daughter

Good book recommendation: Women should be strong, don't be brave

Author: Zhou Pinjun

Who is the queen of e-commerce - Zhou Pinjun?

• Founder of Tokyo clothing brand. Create 2 billion annual revenue.
• Zhou Pinjun pioneered the services of online card swiping, home delivery, and supermarket pickup in Taiwan. 👏👏👏👏👏

She entered married life at the age of 24. Because of their different values, the marriage changed. She decided to break up on the rationality of love, but she did not expect that the divorce would affect her entire career. As a result, the marriage did not end peacefully.

In the divorce agreement between the two parties, when she decided to choose ownership of the company and signed to give up all property rights, she realized the other side of human nature. It turned out that when some people smile in front of people, they still have a knife behind their backs. It turns out that people's irrationality can be cruel to an infinite degree. In the film, she personally said that her ex-husband did not abide by the agreement to transfer the ownership of Tokyo Clothing Company to Zhou Pinjun, and she had signed an unconditional agreement to give up the property, so she was forced to leave the company she built from a young age, with her youngest daughter. Go out clean.

Thoroughly hurt by the person she once loved and loved the most, she settled for 2 years at the low ebb in her life, went through a marriage change and lost all her wealth, raised her daughter alone, stood up again, and established the Wstyle brand again. The legendary figure in the online shopping women's clothing industry - Zhou Pinjun, her self-breakthrough, strength, perseverance and attitude to life give me a thumbs up, I now have another idol to match ^^

Zhou Pinjun also pointed out that the education of parents and children on marriage is very important.

The traditional concept is to hope that children's life and everything should follow their age numbers. What this age can only or cannot do.

Getting married is "must" when you're old, but doesn't tell your kids what a relationship or marriage is. Usually during school, I emphasize to my children that they should study hard and that they are not allowed to fall in love! When I was about to graduate from college, I occasionally asked if I had a boyfriend, and then a few years after I entered the society, I suddenly received a marriage urging from my parents. That's why the author said that the self is very important, even if you need to add a bit of selfishness, you have to follow your inner voice to make decisions, instead of moving forward according to the traditional script.

Hurry up to complete the checklist, hurry up and get married to explain to parents, it sounds really ridiculous. When you are done with this list made by others, don't forget that there will always be another list. For things you don't like to do, you should show your posture in a timely manner, otherwise the other party will take it for granted, so communication is very important.

Do you have to get married when you are old? It may not matter if the marriage is wrong, at most there is one more divorce procedure. But getting into the wrong marriage and not being able to get out is hell. Girls, don't face life in a reluctant state, you are facing the most real and strong self. At any stage of life, whether studying, career, marriage, having children...you must know how to speak up for yourself.

Zhou Pinjun said that if you meet the wrong person, you may not meet the right person again, so it is not to tell everyone whether you should get married or not. But you really think about it, are you getting married because you are old? What do you want? What you want in your heart is more important than anything. There are only people who are suitable for marriage, there is no suitable age for marriage. Don't get married just because you think a boy will support you for the rest of your life without worrying about food and clothing. What if he doesn't want you anymore? Are you capable of reconnecting with your life?

For married girls, what work brings to you may not be entirely financial needs, but your own sense of accomplishment, sense of worth, or not wanting to be out of touch with society. Does a job really need to be wiped out after marriage? You need to know what you mean to your job, maybe it's more important than getting a salary. And loving yourself is not just a matter of material needs, shopping to reward yourself, etc., but to make yourself happy with your current status and role, to act according to your heart, not to live hard, but to be happy Life.

If you feel insecure or unhappy, you may be doing something you don't like to do. Girls should take their future in their hands and don't need to stand in front of others. So instead of waiting for others to love, it is better to be a woman who can fall in love with yourself.

No matter how busy girls and boys are, they should leave alone time for themselves, even if it is only half an hour of coffee time, bath time, watching dramas, quietly reading books, listening to their favorite music... Let the body and mind bring comfort. Someone once said: being alone is the examination of a person. The reason why people need solitude is for inner integration.

Enjoy loving yourself!

Confident women are the most beautiful.

Her story is heart-wrenching and well worth reading for women and men alike.