Mortal raving - 22.7.28 - Attitude in the face of suffering

Holy matters:

Recently, a popular video "Second Uncle" on station B has attracted a lot of attention from public opinion. Different platforms are also discussing the concept of this video and the interpretation of the author's intention. Everyone is also arguing on the Internet. Some people think that everyone is overly interpreting it, and they feel that they are really cured after reading it; some netizens or groups called "reflection monsters" expressed different opinions, feeling the suffering of the second uncle. It is not worthy of praise, but more attention should be paid to the root causes of the social system and structure that caused his suffering, otherwise this kind of suffering, which is not an isolated case, will continue to be staged on the land of China.

I saw the video from the circle of friends a few days ago. After watching it, my first reaction was that I didn't experience the theme too much, but felt that the copywriting of this video is really smooth, quite level, smooth and embellished Interesting. Because I am also learning to write something, I may be more sensitive to the meaning of the text. I also thought about it later, this video suddenly exploded in the B station, if it simply relies on the content to attract natural traffic, it seems that it cannot achieve such a large amount of attention in the short term, and there must be a deliberate push from B station behind it. Because I am currently trying to record some videos and send them to the B station and the video account, I recently discovered an intriguing phenomenon, regardless of the quality of the video content, because during this time, in order to urge myself to learn classical Chinese, I will take every time The contents of the recited "Gu Wen Guan Zhi" were recorded with video and uploaded to station B and video account. It’s all the same type of content. There were more than 800 video views a few days ago, but suddenly the views of the videos recorded in the past two days fell off a cliff, and they were directly reduced to 0 playback. Both platforms have similar numbers. Downtrend. I don't know what the platform push mechanism is behind it, but through this incident, I will feel that a video like "Second Uncle" that suddenly turned out to be a hit, in addition to its own content and quality, the platform's push must be inevitable.

Speaking of the video "Second Uncle", I think there is no right or wrong attitude towards it. After all, everyone's situation, values, life experience, and knowledge reserves are very different, and some people will learn from the video. And there is nothing wrong with enriching the inner experience or healing. And the friends who reflect may not actually be the kind of hard-hearted "reflection monsters" who are jokingly called "reflection monsters" - they have to reflect on everything, and they have to do the opposite, but they will feel that the media platforms hype such values in itself. There will be biases, and there will be suspicion of rhythm. After all, the root cause of suffering will not be solved by one or two positive and optimistic cases, at most it will just cover up the fans. And each platform deletes all reflective articles or interpretation comments, which is a bit of a cover-up, and everyone who understands the deep meaning here understands it.

In the Chinese cultural DNA, there has always been a tradition of praising suffering, such as the classic "Heaven will give great responsibility to the people, and they must first suffer their will and work their muscles and bones", "Eat the hardships and the hardships in order to become a superior person", etc. . It seems that as long as people have suffered enough, they will surely be able to end their hardships, so as to comfort themselves and be happy. As everyone knows, suffering is often because there is no choice, not people are born willing to endure hardship. And suffering can be divided into active and passive. Passiveness is the hardship caused by congenital or human factors such as the environment and fortune, and the active suffering is due to the initiative to endure hardship and temper the will that some people advocate. Let’s talk about the former first. If a person is in a difficult environment for a long time, in fact, most people will not be able to stimulate their fighting spirit, and most people’s choice will be to sink, because in the process of struggling, self-loss is extremely serious, and they can escape. Those who come out are not idle people. And we can't be blinded by the deviations of these survivors, and we are poured into chicken soup to encourage ourselves, and it seems that the flowers poured out by suffering will be particularly bright. As everyone knows, if there is no such suffering and giving people more and better environments, is it possible to achieve faster and greater achievements?

Let’s talk about taking the initiative to endure hardships. If your life is good and smooth, and you want to experience a different life, you should endure a little bit of hardship appropriately, so as to enrich your life experience and give yourself positive motivation. I think it’s okay. But it doesn't mean that all the sufferings experienced are beneficial to the body and mind. This kind of thing is a bit crazy. As the saying goes, you're full. Just like chatting with a female friend before, she was emotionally entangled and her heart was hurt, and the responsibility was on the man. Some friends around her persuaded her to look away. After all, suffering is also the nourishment of life, and I have to be grateful for the experiences in my life. All of it, Barabara, but my friend said with disdain that I can go to fucking misery, and stab you with someone else. You lick your wounds while crying in the dead of night, and you have to thank the person who stabbed you in the dead of night. Give you the opportunity to suffer and grow, what kind of robber logic is this? ! I agree with what this female friend said.

In short, the public opinion discussion triggered by the video of "Second Uncle" is understandable, whether it is a sweetheart or a reflection. A healthy society should also allow different values and different voices to appear. After all, the more the truth is debated, the clearer it becomes, but If it is man-made accusations and comments that are inconsistent with opinions are deleted, in addition to showing their own arrogance and conscience, it does not seem to solve any problems. Of course, the magic weapon of the Zhao family has not really wanted to solve problems, but People who actively solve problems and do not see what they are doing are peaceful and prosperous.

I can't help but think of Guo Degang's comic dialogue, saying that Yu Qian's father, Mr. Li, is a great man. Oh, that kind, I can't see the poor suffering. What should I do? It's easy to handle, send your subordinates and drive away all the poor people within a radius of 50 miles, so that the poor can no longer be seen, the old man is happy!

Hmmm, hurry up and be happy, after all, the old man who is in his old age has not been happy for many years.

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