fragments of life

We often encounter some things, and then we can’t let go for a long time. The reason is that we want to get a recognition, and we want to get justice or a more authoritative affirmation that is beneficial to ourselves on the things that we can’t let go of.

For example, my colleague was very unhappy today, because someone cut the queue when I went to the supermarket. I wanted to complain, and the other party would leave with interest. What I didn’t expect was that the other party was a boy. When I saw that my colleague was a girl, I was even more disdainful. Standing in front of my colleague, my colleague's anger level rose instantly, and he immediately yelled at him. The boy also started to quarrel, and the conversation started to become too much. The colleague was not angry, but seeing that the people around him didn't help to talk, he could only be unwilling. of broken checkout lanes.

When I got back to the office, the sentence "Take a step back, the more you think about it, the more you get angry" is really true. I felt that I was not playing well, so I started a nagging summary. It won't be as uncomfortable as it is now.

You see, she is the victim who deserves the victory of justice, but in the end she is defeated by reality, and a sense of disapproval arises spontaneously in her heart. Being recognized is a strange psychology, but does it really matter?

For a person with a strong heart, it is not very important, because he/she can clearly define their own values, but for some people, it is very necessary, because being recognized means the value of their existence, but at the same time it also brings their own value. Here comes the troubles above.

In fact, these are all small emotions in life, but we should make ourselves happier, that is, try not to be so entangled, because entanglement cannot solve the problem, but we have the support of justice in the imaginary, and try to become stronger~